If you've ever had the feeling that you are dating a complete psychopath, but don't know what signs you are dating a psychopath to look for, I've got you covered! Dating someone who is controlling, who has no empathy or even is completely and totally charming in every aspect can make it hard to see the signs you are dating a psychopath. They are out there ladies and below, I'm going to go over all of the top signs you are dating a psychopath!
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1. Lack of Empathy
Does your boyfriend seem to have absolutely no emotions? Does he lack a lot of sympathy and empathy? These are natural emotions and if your boyfriend seems to not have them, it might be one of the signs you are dating a psychopath. Your boyfriend should have some type of empathy when it comes to certain situations and throughout your entire relationship.
2. Lots of Lies
Do you constantly catch your boyfriend in a lie? Does everything he says typically end up being a lie? If this is exactly what you're experiencing, it might be one of the signs you are dating a psychopath and should watch out. Psychopaths typically lie about everything and can even live double lives sometimes. Keep that in mind girls the next time you catch him in a lie!
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3. Excessive Charm
When you first met your boyfriend, did he completely dazzle you in every way, shape and form? Did he constantly say all of the right things and did all of the right things? Did he charm all of your friends and even your family the second that he met them? That's a sign you are dating a psychopath girls. Excessive charm is fishy – being nice is one thing, but charm is another. It can be fake.
4. No Conscience
Does your boyfriend have a conscience? Does he commit things and not feel any guilt at all over them? Do you see that in him? This is absolutely a sign you are dating a psychopath girls. Every single person in the world has a conscience, which means that if your boyfriend doesn't, that's scary.
5. Sadistic Humor
What about his humor? Does he find humor in things that most people would find disgusting or even completely unlawful? If your boyfriend is laughing at animals being hurt or at people getting blown up, it might be time for you to totally rethink your relationship.
6. Behavior after Sex
How does your boyfriend behave after sex? Does he cuddle with you? Does he make you feel completely loved? Or does he just get up and shower? Or maybe does he treat you like you are not worth anything? Ask yourself these questions girls and see exactly what your answers are.
7. Repeats the Same Mistakes
Finally girls, does he constantly repeat the same mistakes that he makes promises not to make? Does he constantly say all of the right things to get out of you getting angry? This is a sign you are dating a psychopath girls. Remember, you want someone that is going to learn from their mistakes, not constantly make the same ones over and over again.
So, there you have it, all of my top signs you are dating a psychopath. Do any of these signs you are dating a psychopath match your boyfriend? What other signs are out there?
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honey: Um I think I'm in this mess lol (via Twitter)
Tina: 7 Signs That You Are Dating a Psychopath ...glad I always have a chaperon! Lol (via Twitter)
Sasa: I have never heard any thing positive about a psychopath and I'm not sure how this article would offend a psychopath... Regardless those diagnosed with anti personality disorder are individuals to be feared. Why would I be concerned not to offend? Women should be made aware of these signs... Period.
Violet: Leah is completely right! But on top of what she said I'd like to pile on that psychopaths have commitment issues and would not typically be caught in a relationship. Although psychopaths do not feel empathy, they have observed the things that trigger empathy in others, and since they are good liars, they are easily able to display empathy/sympathy when they do not feel it. Same with guilt; they may not feel guilty for a thing they did, but they know how to and they will act remorseful for something they did that they know other people may consider unjust. Also, you typically would not catch a psychopath in a lie; they are very good at covering their lies and manipulating people into believing every word that comes out of their mouth. If you try to call them out on something that sounds suspicious coming from their mouth, they will just tell another lie to cover it or manipulate you more. But usually you won't question them because all of their lies tie together so you will find no loopholes. Also, psychopaths wouldn't laugh at people being blown up or animals being tortured; they lack the ability to feel anything about what the victim feels, thus they don't understand the pain. Finally, after sex, a psychopath wouldn't treat a woman like she isn't worth anything. In the rare occasion that they are found in a relationship, they won't treat their partner like dirt until they either get bored of their partner or until they find the partner to be no longer useful. If a psychopath does treat a lady like crap after sex, chances are they weren't even in a relationship and it was just a one night stand. Psychopaths use people and they will be nice to you until they get what they want. And yes, a psychopath is a person with antisocial personality disorder and psychologists consider psychopathy to be the most extreme point of antisocial personality disorder. And if you didn't mean this article to be about people with ASPD then you really shouldn't have used the term "psychopath" because it is offensive to those who do have antisocial personality disorder or who are a psychopath.
Leah: The term "psychopath" isn't used at all in the medical world any more. It is very politically incorrect, and offensive to people to have Anti Social Personality Disorder. Also, this article makes the assumption that all people who suffer from anti social personality disorder are men, when the majority are women.
Kristina: 7 Signs That You Are Dating a Psychopath ... WOWWWW. 1 of my exes displayed most of these! CRAZY! Literally. (via Twitter)
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