7 Signs to Figure out if He is Picking on Me or Flirting with Me? ...

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Is he picking on me or flirting with me is not a silly question.

The language of love can often be a mystery, and if an object of your affection starts sending out mixed signals it can be very confusing.

When he makes jokey comments or asides to his friends, is he poking fun or hiding his embarrassment at how he really feels?

Is he too afraid to admit how he feels, so he is covering up with teasing and put downs?

Does he make fun of you but wear a smile while doing so?

If he makes disparaging remarks about the way you dress or style your hair, what does it all mean?

Is he picking on me or flirting with me isn’t the easiest question to answer but here’s a few tips and clues.

1. If You Were a Guy then Would He Have Said These Things?

Many, many men are terrible at flirting but they sometimes discover that if they are jerks to women, they get more attention than if they are sweet (and smarmy).

Is he picking on me or flirting with me?

It’s possible that he's flirting, and it’s possible that he is not very good at it.

Ask yourself if he would say the things he is saying to another guy.

If that is the case then he may simply be a jerk and you should probably avoid him before he steps on your feelings and ego.2

Don’t ever forget that you are the one choosing to allow a man be in your presence (at least in dating terms anyway).

Is He Paying You More Attention than He Should Be?

Comments:

lurvmoktorxo69
@MissSaucy, HEY MISS SAUCY its me the lurv moktor my advice to u my friend is to follow ur heart i completely get wat ur goin through. trust me gurl we have all been there. just be spontaneous give him a nickname like shmuel. that would be totes amazeballs if u get me xxx69
lurvmoktorxo69
yeah theres this jock at scool hes givin me the eyes and when i see his face theres not a thing that i would change. hes amazing when he looks at me the lion inside me roars.i think he likes me but i dont know wat to do. love u guys so much but please i am DESPERATE HELP!!!69
Miriam
So for valentimes day i want to give my crush something like a cute note or something but idk what to do. any tips?
MissSaucy
Hey girls! I'm 14 and there's this guy in my grade that I really like but I'm soooooo bad at flirting! Also, our parents are friends so we see each other a lot and it's sorta awkward...he's sort of a jerk when he's around his friends but he's REALLLY nice when he's alone and lately he's been glancing at me a lot, hanging around, and using my nickname but he won't really talk to me. Cant tell if he may be into me or not. Whenever I try to talk to him, I either don't talk loud enough, say too much, and curse a lot. Any advice? xxx
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