7 Signs You Are Being Used as an Emotional Crutch ...

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If you have just gone through a breakup, you need to know the signs you are being used so you don’t become your ex’s emotional crutch.

After a breakup that you didn’t initiate, chances are you want to keep in contact with your ex because you are hoping he might change his mind.

The thing is, although this can occur with some relationships, its more likely that he sees you as his backup girl.

Since you deserve so much better than that, I’m going to share the signs you are being used as an emotional crutch.

1. More than Friends

Does your ex still act like your boyfriend?

If so, then he is still texting, calling, sharing your bed and spending time with you.

One of the signs you are being used is when an ex acts like a boyfriend but won’t commit to you.

While you keep hope alive that you will get back together, the truth is that this pseudo-boyfriend is using you until he finds something better.

Tell him that you aren’t interested in having a pretend-boyfriend;

you want a real man that can commit.

Can’t Let Go

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Merarri Martinez
@Pattyannee, Don't wait for him any longer!! You deserve a guy who knows what he wants. Life is too short to be waiting on a guy that doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship. Cut ties with him so he knows what it feels like to be without you. If you are always there, he knows he has the best of both worlds.
Pattyannee
My ex keeps saying " I don't know what the future holds" he asked me to Waite but he wants to only be friends. He acts like I'm his but he won't give if himself. I waited a year
Jessica
All of this is true for me!! I've just cut my ex out of my life for good today, although it hurt I can't wait for meeting someone who's actually going to be a man and commit to me
Shel
All but number 7 are true for me and my ex. Finally cut him out of my life by moving away and changing my number. Nothing good ever comes from staying "friends"'with an ex.
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