You don't want to waste your time dating someone who won't treat you the way you deserve. If your boyfriend acts like more of a child than an adult, you have a problem. That's why Style Caster is here to give you the signs that your boyfriend is too childish to date:
Snapshot Survey
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1. He Doesn’t Pick up after Himself
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Does he expect you to do the dishes, even though he's the only one who threw stuff in the sink? That's a red flag.
2. He’s Recklessly Impulsive
He should think before he acts. Otherwise, he'll always end up in trouble.
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3. He’s a Little Too Close to His Mother
If his mom is still buying him clothes and telling him what to wear in the morning, you have a major problem on your hands.
4. He’s Selfish in Bed
A mature man knows that your pleasure is just as important as his pleasure is.
5. He Avoids Serious Conversations
You can't spend all your time talking about video games. You need to talk about the deeper things in life.
6. He Brushes off Your Family and Friends
If he thinks that meeting your family after months of dating is too big of a step, then he's clearly not ready for a serious relationship.
7. Any Mention of Children or Commitment Make Him Panic
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If you want a real relationship, then you can't be with someone who flees whenever they hear the word "marriage."
Have you ever dated a childish man?
Comments
peony: When they make silly unfunny jokes and don't know when to stop
OhMeOhMy10: Do not even associate yourself with a momma's boy... Ladies!!!
Alicia: Plenty. Men think we're crazy, but being childish is worse.
Katie: @TinkerbellMoi toddlers need their mothers to pick out their clothes. Grown men don't. And if he relies on his mother to do things like dress him in the morning, either you'll end up having to do it someday, or you'll have to have his mother around to do everything for him. Always.
Shab: My boyfriend cringes at the thought of marriage, he claims he's serious but when it comes to marriage he's just speechless😔 I just wish he would consider it later on, but then again it's only been 1 year?
SudaneseGirl: Yes! My rapist/ex was the most insecure, manipulative and CHILDISH person I will ever have met.
TinkerbellMoi: Is it really that bad that a guy is close to his mother? I mean the guy that I'm dating he told me that his mother picks his clothes for him.. How is it bad though?
Steph5: Why didn't I come across this article earlier?! Could've come in handy when I was with my ex, would've (should've) broken up with him sooner
Amanda: Shannah... A year to a man is a few months. For most men it's not enough time. It takes about six months for someones true character to show. Most men are logical thinkers so i wouldn't take it as he is childish. I would take it as he need more time; you as an adult should be able to respect his choices. When men feel like they are being "influenced" or "manipulated" even "convinced" to do something they didn't come up with on their own... They feel they have lost control. Give it time, the one thing about being an adult is having patience and accepting that you are only in control of yourself. So give it time, everything will work out. .
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