13 Signs You're Not Ready to Be in a Relationship ...

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You’ve met someone and the sparks are flying, but before you start that fire, make sure you recognize the signs you’re not ready to be in a relationship.

If you identify with any of these red flags, you might need to fly solo until you’re up to a major commitment.

Here are 8 top signs to look out for before heading for Couplesville.

1. You’re Unhappy

While dishing about expensive dates to your gal pals might cheer you up momentarily, let’s face it: you’re using the person you're dating.

If you’re not satisfied with where you’re at, you need to work at it, girl!

Believe me, when your partner realizes that he or she is a feel-good tool, it’ll be one of the worst feelings in the world.

And racking up the bad karma points won’t be fun for you.

You’re Not over Your Ex

Comments:

Sheila
Hey Noni, It's natural to change a bit when you're in a relationship but not when your partner wants to change every little aspect of you and especially not when you're happy with the way you are! Thanks for stopping by Noni.
Noni
A girl I know has had this same problem, not only that but she wanted to change the guy for who he is saying "it's for the better." :( But they're finally over now, and that guy is feeling much better without her.
Sheila
Hey Anna, It sounds like you have some commitment issues. Don't worry though, when the right guy comes along, you'll get over it :)
Anna
Okay : ) thanks, I feel better now : ).
Anna
Hi, I have realised that as soon as I can feel that my crush likes me back too I freak out and get this disgusting feeling. This has ruined my last relationship and prevented me recently from getting into a new one. Is this normal or not? If not, then what should I do? Please help.
Heather
Hey Floortje! It's hard to have those feelings but not know what to do with them. I'd say maybe, if you are having doubts on the relationship, just hold off for now. That way you can make sure that you really are ready for a relationship. :)
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