So He Cheated: Should You Take Him Back Again?


It doesn't matter how you found out - you're heartbroken because your man cheated on you! The question is, of course, whether or not you can or should take him back. It's painful - I'm so sorry! - but here are a few questions you should ask yourself to help you decide whether to give him another go, or kick him to the curb with the rest of the trash.

1. Did He Tell You, or Did Someone else?

If your man confessed to his own wrong-doing, then chances are, he has a conscience and he knew what he did was wrong. If he didn't tell you, he might have continued seeing this other woman until you found out some other way.

What Does HE Want?


No matter how much I loved them - In time I could forgive, but I'd dump him and never go back.
Have I ever thought it isn't "really" his fault for cheating? I hope no one does. I have no problem controlling my emotionally charged estrogen levels. You should never take him back bcus once you do ...
Try to give him a second chance..
Sometimes it's okay to take them back .
I do agree with all of ur decisions and opinions but have u ever thought that it's isn't really his fault for cheating. Guys have more testosterone levels than girls so he may have more sexual attenti...
Speaking for my self I wouldn't because it's like giving him permission to do it again .
I like this article and I don't agree with "once a cheater always a cheater" everyone is different. My dad is a serial cheater and has gone threw two marriages.. Not very good. I have wrongfully cheat...
Yes I must agree , they always re-offend ... Get the hell outta there ! Start afresh girls !
Agnes Eccles
Never. Period.
Never ever take a guy back if he cheated! What are the odds he won't do it again?!
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