Stop Worrying about These Things and Talk to Your Crush ...

By Holly

The thought of talking to your crush can be terrifying. However, you're never going to end up in a relationship with him if you don't work up the courage to approach him. That's why you need to banish certain thoughts about how you're not good enough for him. It'll be easier to start up a conversation if you stop worrying about these things when you see your crush:

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What You Look like

You're always going to find a pimple or a hair out of place, which is why you can't use it as an excuse to stay far away from you crush. He isn't going to expect you to look perfect, so you shouldn't hesitate to walk right up to him and start a conversation. If he's a decent dude, then he won't care about what you look like. If he does, then you don't want to date him, anyway.

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What to Say

It sounds like a stupid idea to walk up to someone when you have no clue what to say to them, but you should do it anyway. "Hello" is a great opener, and if you're lucky, your crush will have something to say to keep the conversation going. Even if he doesn't, you can settle for asking him about his day or for asking for help finding a certain building on your campus. Saying something silly is better than saying nothing at all.

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If He’ll Reject You

You can't let the fear of rejection stop you from going after what you want. Your crush isn't automatically going to know that you like him, just because you started a conversation with him. Even if he does realize it and reject you, at least you'll know where he stands. It's better to know for sure than to question his affection for months.

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If He Wants You around

If the conversation with your crush lasts for a long time, don't become paranoid over whether he wants you to leave him alone already. People are pretty good at coming up with excuses to get out of situations they don't want to be in, so if your crush hated talking to you, he'd already be walking away.

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If It’ll Lead Anywhere

For now, you should be focusing on having a regular conversation with your crush. It's not time to ask him out yet, so don't worry too much about whether things are going to lead anywhere. One conversation won't make or break whether or not you'll date, so try not to stress.

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Who’s around Him and Will Judge You

Don't worry about what your friends, or your crush's friends, think of you. Chances are slim that you'll end up alone with him in a room where you can talk privately, so you're going to have to talk to him in front of others. After all, does it really matter if someone eavesdrops on your conversation? If they do, then they obviously care too much about your life.

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Who else He Talks to

It doesn't matter if your crush is best friends with the hottest girl in town. Walk up to him and have a conversation anyway. Even though you constantly compare yourself to her, he's not going to compare the two of you.

The thought of approaching your crush is terrifying, but he's just a normal person like everyone else you know. What's the last thing you've spoken to your crush about?

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Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge

My crush is 6 years older than me he is also my co-worker. We always talk about our hobbies but nothing more :(

Im so scared about having a conversation with him. He's always looking at me but he never says anything. We studies dentistry and m still trying to be accepted in the same career i think it's that he looks at me like a baby idk

The pathetic thing is on the last day of school at the very last 10 seconds, I finally found the courage to talk to him. But I said it super fast and then I walked away. I was waiting for a response, but I think I had said it that fast he was still trying to figure out what I said. I wanted to run into a wall after that. I don't think he likes me back. But we keep staring at each other and we have this thing, I just don't know what it is. He would have something with me if he didn't get annoyed around me on purpose and looks at me when he thinks I don't realise it.

I agree speak to your crush it will solve so much drama. I had a crush I was so nervous and when I spoke with him.he behaved like a baboon. I was so happy because interest died a quick death hahaahha afterwards he tried to speak to me. Couldn't be bothered. He turned from a crush to a crash as in I had no interest in him what so ever. What a relief...!

Last thing we spoke about was the bonfire going on near the end of this week. I'm hoping he asks me to sit with him

I have social anxiety and it's so hard for me to even talk to him ughhh

My crush is 6 years older, we talk when we were much younger show each other pictures even pictures with his mother. He asks to sit next to him sometimes in the lobby.

Sometimes, we just like the idea of someone rather than the actual person.

I like this boy who's 1 yr older but having a hard time building up the courage to actually start a conversation because were complete strangers. I want to get to know him but don't know what to say. Especially with the fact that I may not be his type :/......

Guys I'm 12 year olds and I have this prob to buy instead he isn't a crush he's my boyfriend, every time around him it's so always awkward that we never had a conversation in public only on what's app etc... Plz help me

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