Figuring out the signs it's time to move on isn't easy. Being in a relationship and then breaking up is hard, but the signs it's time to move on are different for everyone. So ladies, I've got some surefire signs it's time to move on and stop dwelling on the past. I knew these signs will help you figure out if you are dwelling too long and it's time to move on.
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1. He Has Moved on
So you've been broken up for a few weeks now and he's already moved on. I think right there is one of the signs it's time to move on too. It's obvious that he's getting on with his life and it's time for you to get on with your life too. No sense dwelling on the past right?
2. It's Been Months
Now, there isn't a time limit on how long you can grieve a relationship, but if it's been months and months and you are still in horrible shape, it might be a sign it's time to move on with your life. Just because you aren't with that person anymore doesn't mean that your life ends, but it will hurt for a while, just remember that life does go on.
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3. You Are Feeling Better
It doesn't matter how much time has passed, if you are feeling better and are feeling like it's time to move on, it could actually be one of the signs it's time to move on! Just because it's been a few days or a few weeks doesn't mean anything. Just remember, the first guy that you start dating might be a rebound guy – but he also could become the love of your life!
4. You Don't Feel the Same
Let's say you are in a relationship and your feelings have changed. This could happen anytime at all and it doesn't make you a horrible person. If you are dating someone that you don't have the same feelings for anymore, it could be time to move on from that person and end it.
5. It Hurts
Like the 'you don't feel the same' reason, if being with the person that you are with hurts you more than you are happy, it might be time for you to move on. I know that it's hard, but it is definitely a sign it's time to move on.
6. You're Living in the past
You and your boyfriend may have broken up a while ago, but you are still hanging out in all of the places that you hung out in before, you try to catch a glimpse of him whenever you can. You are essentially, living in the past. This is where it might be time for you to cut the ties and move on.
7. He Expects You to Change
When you're with a guy, you are constantly going to be changing yourself, just because you are with another person. However, if he expects big, core changes and he tries to control you, it might be time to move on. Nobody should ever make you make huge changes when they love you, they should love you for who you are!
8. No Effort
Finally ladies, if you are putting forth all of the effort, it's definitely time to move on. After all, it should be a team effort whenever you are in a relationship and you definitely want to make sure that the team part is there.
As you can see, there are tons of different signs it's time to move on. If you are experiencing any of these signs, it might be time for you to move on and move out. So ladies, what other signs it's time to move on do you have? Anymore to share?
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blossom: Hello, Heather I wish I could rekindle my relationship to him but I'm now so confused we get along and suddenly madly hated each other company. Atm I was pushed by him and I'm not sure if he could full me to keep me . I'm impress of what had happen to us I'm so idiot
Anonymous: Hi Zoe. I advise you to not give up, too many people these days don't try to work out their issues and as a soon as say they have a fight they either break-up or divorce but it shouldn't be like that. If you really care for the guy and are in love with him then try and make it work, another guy out there may never be as special as he is.
blossom: I agree in everything you stated here. I'm totally disappointed to myself when I know it's all my fault and in the end i deeply hurt and suffering too my own stupidity. I met someone online 3yrs ago I was easy to believe that his sincerely meant what he said to me when we chatted. I never once liking him when we chatted and I never
Zoe: It's not been going so well between me and my bf. I think I'm the one executing no. 7 and feeling no.4... We met each other when we were depressed. Now, after a year I got over the depression and I feel he's not ambitious enough for my standards, not manly enough? I feel bad about myself for expecting this much. I wanted to break it off because I know I shouldn't try to change people, but he went all histirical and told me he could change that it's not that hard. Later on he was very angry and cold towards me. He told me he had become more self confident after that almost-break-up thing. Somehow that attitude make me more attracted to him again. So now we're practically back together, but I think it'll be different. He says he can't relaxed as long as I can't say for sure I want to stay togehter with him. It just seem like a waste to break-up but not really sparkling enough to stay longterm together. We have had great times in the past. Now, I'm like we can stay together as long as it lasts. That's probably not the right attitude towards a relationship. Any thoughts are appreciated.
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