It’s not been going so well between me and my bf. I think I’m the one executing no. 7 and feeling no.4… We met each other when we were depressed. Now, after a year I ... See more got over the depression and I feel he’s not ambitious enough for my standards, not manly enough? I feel bad about myself for expecting this much. I wanted to break it off because I know I shouldn’t try to change people, but he went all histirical and told me he could change that it’s not that hard. Later on he was very angry and cold towards me. He told me he had become more self confident after that almost-break-up thing. Somehow that attitude make me more attracted to him again. So now we’re practically back together, but I think it’ll be different. He says he can’t relaxed as long as I can’t say for sure I want to stay togehter with him. It just seem like a waste to break-up but not really sparkling enough to stay longterm together. We have had great times in the past. Now, I’m like we can stay together as long as it lasts. That’s probably not the right attitude towards a relationship.

Any thoughts are appreciated.