8 Telling Signs That You're the Other Woman ...


Have you started getting suspicious about the new guy you’re dating and looking for signs you’re the other woman in his life?

There are some great men out there, but there are plenty of bad apples too.

Take a look at this list of 8 telling signs that you’re the other woman and see if this new guy is worth keeping around!2

After all, being able to tell if you’re the other woman isn't easy.

1. Your Dates Are in Secretive Locations

A good indicator that you’re the other woman in his life is if all of your dates are in odd, out-of-the-way places like a dive bar or hole-in-the-wall diner that’s nowhere close to your place or his.

Also, does he accompany you to places like the mall or in town running errands?

If he always has excuses as to why he can’t go certain places, he might be trying to avoid being seen with you.

This might be one of the signs you’re the other woman.2

His Phone Calls Are Private


Rose An
@Anonymous Just try to talk to him about that and ask him why he didnt tell you he had a girlfriend. if he ignored that conversation, leave him and move on girl, he's not that kind of man that'll respect you for who you really are, he evenly cant be honest with you. so move on and know that he isnt the only man you can love in this world, theres a lot of men out there who's better than him. Wait 'till you'll met that kind of guy who'll be serious in everything about you.
Rose An
@Lahni Tavete Yes honey, he's just that guy who wanna have sex with you. forget him and move on dear, God will forgive you for what you've done that night.
Reading some of these replies gives me a headache. Take responsibility for your part. It takes 2 people to have sex. If you were forced or drugged that's a different thing. Women really need to understand that if you sense a guy does have feelings for you then take it and grow it. Ever wonder why so many women pine. Life is short, enjoy the moments. If the guy lied about things that is different. If he lead you on then that is different too. What you can do is to bring it up and say something like hey, tell me if you are seeing other ppl or involved because I will respect you more for that and you will gain more brownie points with me. I find by telling women things up front it gives them the power to decide. I have dated up to 4 women at the same time even sat at a table with 3 of them with others around. Later one said it was just fun for the time and she never wanted anything serious but she enjoyed being with me. I had a 3some with 2 of them and they even said it was a good experience and felt clean and safe. The thing was they even asked me to do it again. It was odd they both asked me several weeks later almost on the same day. Either way, if you can figure out what a guy is about then you can adapt or leave. You are not perfect, keep that in mind. Men are visual, men are driven biologically by ego. That is how nature made us. Men today are watered down and weak imo. They act like little girls and resort to stupid crap to get a woman in bed. Women need to recognize that both men and women change in time. You damn well know in one date or two that YOU are not his kind of woman e.g. if he seems to talk about blondes or look at big chested women. If he says I am an ass or breast man yet you do not have that feature he listed guess what, then take it for sex or take it for the experience and eject yourself. Or be a WOMAN and say, you know I don't think I am really your type but let's have fun and keep it at that. And in walks life for some ppl that moment turned out to be a lifetime of good moments. Life is not a soap opera or a movie.
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