12. You're All about Yourself, All the Time

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Loving yourself is something we should all learn and be able to do. But, if we're no longer into our partner, we can easily overlook our partner's wants and needs and only focus on ourselves. Maybe you no longer care whether he likes what you wear or whether she'll want some help with her school project. If your list of priorities has become all about you, your partner is probably no longer an important part of your life.

The Two of You Have Zero Respect for Each Other

Comments:

Anya
If you're on the fence about your relationship, seek relationship counseling for yourself first, then couples therapy if the therapist thinks that would help.
Heather Jensen
That is so true!! With my girlfriend and I -- it's all about the little things that cause fights.
Heather Jensen
That isn't good! Are you annoyed with your boyfriend?
Oronda Washington
I get annoyed very easy..Ugh!!
Anna Waite
The Little Things!! For my very recent ex there were no major "deal breakers" so i stayed with him thinking i needed to just put up with the little things. But a million little things built up resentm...
Heather Jensen
Aww, I've actually done that to my partner before ... and it's not appreciated at all. Talk about it with him, see how he responds.
Heather Jensen
Aww Jesse, I'm sorry!
Jesse
It's definitely frustrating at times. Our main problem is...he likes to throw jabs, low blows about a problem I'm struggling with. He always ends it with "I'm only playing" when sometimes he may be but other times...he's really not.
Jesse
4 out of 9 for me.
Heather Jensen
Might not be -- do you think you might want to move on and find someone that you want to be with?
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