Oh, you Libra ladies. You're all sorts of awesome. I mean, yeah, sometimes you act like the world revolves around you, but that's kind of understandable – you're the sun! You're not always reliable and sometimes you get a little too complacent, but at the same time, there's nothing you won't do for the people you love. You're an amazing woman and an incredible person to be in a relationship with – as long as you avoid, or at least keep an eye on, the biggest mistakes Libra women make when they're in a relationship.
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1. Admit It, You Can Be Vain Sometimes
C'mon! 'Fess up! It's okay – a little vanity can be a good thing. Just make sure you don't become a big vain monster in your relationship because that's no good for either of you.
2. You're Also Unreliable when It Comes to Things
What kinds of things? All kinds! Sometimes you forget that you took on extra tasks, you might forget important dates, or maybe you can't get anywhere on time.
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3. Indecisive is Your Middle Name
Not really (probably), but you know where this is going. Libras can sometimes be a little fickle and have a hard time making up their minds. Naturally, that may wreak a bit of havoc in your relationships.
4. You Sometimes Work Too Hard to Please Your Partner
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It's amazing that you give so much, not just to your partner but to all your loved ones. Just make sure you don't neglect yourself – take care of you, too.
5. … Which Leads to Resentment in the Relationship
And definitely don't give everything without expecting anything in return because you definitely will get resentful.
6. You Can Be Lazy when You Are in Love
Well … you get comfortable and complacent. You may not try as hard, exactly. It's great to feel so at home and comfortable with your lover, but watch out for ruts!
7. You Put Too Much Space between Your Partner and You - a Lot
You tend to be happy on your own, plus you can freeze out people when you're upset. Those things can make for a lot of distance, so try not to keep your partner at arm's length all the time.
8. You Push a Lot of the Romantic Gestures onto Your Partner
Not only that, but you sometimes expect grand romantic gestures without actually saying so, even if that isn't your partner's style.
9. … and You Don't do a Lot Yourself or in Return
Remember, you get what you give in all things, but especially in love.
10. After the Chase is over, You Might Lose Interest
That may also explain why you feel a little lazy when you're in a relationship. Not good!
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Being a Libra woman often means you possess a love for the thrill of the courtship, the back-and-forth dance of attraction. But once things settle into a comfortable rhythm, the scales can tip towards complacency. It’s vital to remind yourself that a relationship doesn’t plateau after the initial excitement; it evolves. Growth and water need to come from both partners, so focus on nurturing the bond rather than mourning the loss of the chase. Show your partner that your affection has depths yet to be explored. Remember, the true adventure begins when the chase ends.
11. You Welcome Change a Little Too Often
Being able to go with the flow is a good thing, but you can't seek change constantly. That's exhausting – for everybody!
12. You Are Sometimes Too Easy-going …
It's okay to ask for the things you want and need – it's essential, in fact. Remember, you don't want to end up feeling resentful of your partner!
13. … and Don't Demand What You Want a Lot of the Time
See? It really is okay to make demands, as long as you make them the right way.
14. You Don't Take Control a Lot of the Time
It's that indecisive thing. And the easy-going thing. At some point, there will be something you want to control, so don't be afraid to step up.
15. You Dislike a Lot of Hard Work
No, see, you're a hard worker, but sometimes you don't want to put a lot of hard work into your relationships.
16. You Can Be Really Messy a Lot of the Time
Not all Libras are messy, but some are. It won't always matter, either, unless you end up with a partner who likes things neat and clean.
17. You Put a Lot of Pressure on Your Partner Because You Are Lazy in Relationships
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Now, that's not fair! Just remember, your partner can't shoulder the whole burden. You have to work on the relationship, too.
What do you think, Libra ladies? Anything familiar?
Comments
Susan: Thanks for telling it like it is will need to make some changes
Stephanie: Some are on point made me laugh a lil lol
Mg16xoxo: Hmm half of them are true
Vanessa: So true, but I don't know how to change that and make my future relationships
Matsui: Some are true not all
Vanessa: Better
Beccs: true but not all of 'em...
Isabella: Hmm only a few points relate to me - I've put in a lot into my relationship and I think I've grown up a bit too :)
Lulolita: So true! I'm a Libra (sun, venus and mercury). Spot on :)
London: This was so relatable be ur
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