The Ultimate Secret πŸ™Š to Helping You Nail down πŸ”¨ a Commitment-Phobe πŸ’” ...

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Some people are afraid of commitment, and I want to start off by saying that those fears are completely valid.

You can't talk someone out of a fear, although you can help them.

If you're interested in someone who's simply not into the idea of commitments, you can't force that person to change their mind.

See, the secret to nailing down a commitmentphobe is not trying to nail them down in the first place.

You're not doomed, though, and you don't have to give up the idea of having a relationship, you just have to work a little magic.

1. Don't Let Them Dwell on the past

Don't Let Them Dwell on the past

The thing to remember is that most commitmentphobes have a reason they don't like commitment.

Something likely happened in one of their past relationships that put them off the idea.

Everyone's experiences are powerful and valid.

What you can do is help your commitmentphobe stop dwelling on the past by making them understand that you are different and a future with you will be different, too.

Go Easy on the Boundaries

Comments:

Aubrey Denise
What's going on?
Aubrey Denise
He says he really likes me and misses me, but any time I propose plans he either says maybe, or probably not but we'll see.
Aubrey Denise
Hi. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, after the first two weeks we stopped going on dates and just started hanging out at his house watching tv. Now I'm struggling to get him to make any plans with me.
Neecey Beresford
@Amberly, Hi Amberly, welcome to allwomenstalk
Amberly
Hello how are you doing everybody
Hannah Walters
I have been with my commitmentphobe for 2 years. I want the title but after all this time we don't need it. We love each other and dedicate time to each other over anyone else and he appreciates not being pushed! Patience is key.
Dorygirl
Ha! Same here. I'm seeing a guy who's scared of commitment but he still wants to act like we're an official,couple! 😢
Desiree Pagan
Yes, I have. He cut out and ran. So heartbreaking
Julie
I know that feeling me to mine been texting for a year and meet up lol xx
Tollie
I'm also dating one 😁
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