17 Things Newly Single Ladies Should do ASAP ...

By Lyndsie

17 Things Newly Single Ladies Should do ASAP  ...

When you find yourself suddenly single after being half of a couple, it's a little disconcerting. You might be heartbroken, especially if you were really into your partner or the breakup wasn't your idea. You might be relieved, especially if you initiated the split. Maybe the breakup was even amicable. All of that is just a bit irrelevant, however, because there's still a disconnect when you break up with someone and find that you're a single lady once again. Instead of feeling totally at odds with yourself, here are a few things you ought to do – just for you.

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1

Get Your Flirt on

Get Your Flirt on Seriously. Detonate that charm bomb. You don't have to go home with anyone, but some casual flirting can boost your confidence.

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Let out that inner spark that perhaps got a bit dimmed in your last relationship. Exchange that playful banter with the barista, flash a coy smile to the stranger at the gym, or even compliment someone's outfit. This isn't about finding a new beau; it's about reminding yourself that you've got an irresistible vibe that can light up a room. Plus, a little harmless banter is like exercising your charisma muscles – they'll only get stronger with use. Go ahead, make someone's day and yours along with it!

2

Hook up with Your Girls

Hook up with Your Girls Surround yourself with your girlfriends as often as possible. They will love you, laugh with you, and let you cry as much as you need to.

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Organize a girls' night out or even a cozy sleepover. Indulge in movies, comfort food, and maybe even a pampering spa session. These moments are invaluable. You'll feel an incredible support network and a sense of belonging that can often get lost in the shuffle of a relationship. Remember, these are the women who can offer you a fresh perspective, and who will likely have been there through thick and thin. Their company can be the perfect remedy for a bruised heart.

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Treat Yo' Self

Treat Yo' Self Head to the spa. Get your nails done. Do something new with your hair. Treat yo' self!

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Indulge in massage therapy or a facial to soothe your senses and give you that glow of relaxation and self-care. If the spa isn't your scene, consider a pampering session at home with luxurious bath bombs, scented candles, and your favorite playlist. Sometimes a little retail therapy can also lift your spirits—buy that dress you’ve been eyeing or those shoes that just scream your name. Remember, it's crucial to love and nurture yourself, especially during times of change. Embrace this as a golden opportunity to focus on your happiness and wellbeing.

4

Take a Vacation

Take a Vacation You've earned it. You need some time to get in touch with yourself again.

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Make a New Playlist

Make a New Playlist It seems like such a simple thing, but music soothes the savage beast. Fill up a new playlist with the tunes you need to hear right now, whether that consists of cheesy love ballads, breakup songs, or really angry music.

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6

Sage Your Space

Sage Your Space No lie, this helps after any negative, sad, or upsetting event.

7

Reclaim Your Sexuality

Reclaim Your Sexuality Get to know yourself again sexually, as well, especially if the relationship you just got out of did not include a satisfying sex life – or even if it did. Orgasms make you feel good, in the first place, and in the second, well, it's always good to check in with yourself, your needs, and your desires.

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Remind Yourself That Sex Doesn't Always Equal Love

Remind Yourself That Sex Doesn't Always Equal Love And love doesn't always mean sex. You may need to learn this lesson again because of your breakup itself … or you may simply need a reminder before consoling yourself with a rebound or a distraction. I get you.

9

Reclaim Your Whole Damn Bed

Reclaim Your Whole Damn Bed Take up ALL the space. Except for what you sell with the dogs or cats.

10

Recognize What a Goddess You Are

Recognize What a Goddess You Are Know your worth. Find it. Search for it.

11

Learn to Rely on Yourself

black and white, monochrome photography, monochrome, emotion, film noir, Other people can hold you up – your family, your closest friends, and someday, the right person. But you are the one constant. Be there for yourself.

12

Assert Yourself

Assert Yourself But maybe … maybe don't get violent.

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Learning to stand your ground is key when embracing the single life. It's about finding that delicate balance between being polite and being a pushover. Start small: express your opinions in conversations, and don't shy away from making decisions about what to watch or where to eat. Remember, there's a profound strength in voicing what you want and don't want. This newfound assertiveness will not only boost your confidence but will also keep you from getting lost in the shuffle of the dating world.

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Go Day Drinking Once in a While

Go Day Drinking Once in a While Let loose, is actually the point. Do something a little reckless every now and then. Indulge in your vices, if you like, just exercise moderation.

14

Date Someone Who Makes You Laugh

Date Someone Who Makes You Laugh Even if it's just a casual date for the sole purpose of laughing until your cheeks hurt.

15

Get Yourself Some Flowers

Get Yourself Some Flowers Why wait for someone else to get them for you? Flowers are beautiful. Just looking at them will make you feel better.

16

Throw a Singles Party

Throw a Singles Party Even if it's just you and your friends.

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Find a New Hobby

Find a New Hobby For the record, yes, taking naps is a perfectly acceptable hobby.

What's the first thing you do – or used to do, as the case may be – when you get out of a relationship?

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A lots of these things a woman should do beeing in a relationship and she wouldn't have to be single. Sometimes we lose ourselves beeing in a relationship, we should be the queen of the world and than that man will love us even more. 💕 have a nice day ladies.

@Sabine i agree with you i was losing myself and that should never happen

Also be honest with yourself and let him go cry if you have to set him and subconsciously make yourself believe that you would be with someone eventually. Give yourself some time out and hangout with friends as article suggested. Get to know you !!!

Can we take the emphasis off alcohol? I know one too many young women who have too much trouble with it.

I just got out of a relationship like this week i feel lonely at times cause we did everything together but i want to get to know me again i feel like i was losing myself any advice

Is it okay if you want to mingle again? As I've been single like for an year but now it's like I wanna date someone but can't find a right guy😒

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