7 Unfair Things to Ask of Your Boyfriend for Girls Who Want to Play Fair ...

There are certain things that your boyfriend should be happy to do for you. Meanwhile, there are other things that you have no business asking your boyfriend to do for you. He's not your toy, which means you're not in control of every aspect of his life. Even if your boyfriend would die for you if you asked him to, here are a few things that it's unfair to ask your boyfriend to do:

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End Friendships

There are certainly exceptions to this rule. If your boyfriend is friends with a sketchy ex or with a guy who has cursed you out, then it's perfectly fine for you to ask him to stop talking to them. However, if you just don't like one of his friends, because the guy is immature, you shouldn't order your boyfriend to cut contact with him. You don't have to like all of your partner's friends, just like he doesn't have to like all of your friends.

Lose Weight

You should love your boyfriend just the way he is. That's why you shouldn't ask him to lose weight or cut his hair. If he asks for your opinion about his style, then feel free to tell him the truth. But if he's comfortable with his looks, you shouldn't insult him by telling him to change his entire appearance.

Stop Watching Adult Videos

Some women consider watching adult videos cheating. However, your man is always going to find other women attractive. Wouldn't you rather have him fantasize about stars on a computer screen than actual women that he knows?

Spend Less Time with His Family

If your boyfriend is a family man, it's going to be hard to pull him away from them. There's nothing wrong with telling him to rely less on his mother, but it's unfair to ask him to stop spending so much time with his mother. After all, she was the first woman in his life.

Quit His Job

If your man is happy with the career he has, then you shouldn't ask him to quit. If his salary is low, then you can encourage him to get a second job instead. Just don't ask him to give up his career completely, especially if it's his dream. Don't you think it's better for him be happy with his job than to make millions of dollars?

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Buy You Expensive Jewelry

If your boyfriend asks you what you want for your birthday, it's fine to tell him about the necklace you've been eying. However, if that necklace costs hundreds of dollars, you might want to tell him about a few alternatives that you'd also love to receive. You can't expect him to spend all of his cash on one gift for you. It's the thought that counts, after all.

Take You Everywhere

Your boyfriend loves you, which means he loves spending time with you. However, he can't let you tag along to every place he goes. Sometimes, his friends will want to have a boy's night. Sometimes, his family will want to spend quality time with him. You can't ask him to take you everywhere with him. It's impossible.

Your boyfriend would give you the world, but that doesn't mean that it's fair for you to ask him to do so. Has a man ever asked you to stop doing any of these things?

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I think the bitch alka a pornstar on the d low.

There is no need for porn. It's a no for me.

Porn is unrealistic. Straight up ask your guy what he wants and what he wants you to do. My fiancé and I don't ever watch porn. Because we are having sex multiple times a day and PERFECTLY HAPPY!

Tip to guys: if the girl tried to control what you watch, that's your sign to dump her.

#3 is just a Pandora's Box...it's out there, and in many cases it's free, so guys will watch...but referring to "porn" is like referring to "drugs"....you are covering a very wide spectrum with one word, some porn is just highly sexual, bearing in mind that this stuff is not "real", so I can see sharing a lust-filled evening with certain types of porn. But some porn is exceptionally disturbing and violent, not to mention gay porn, and transgender porn...and some of it is expensive. If my guy came to me and asked me if I minded or cared, I would probably say watch what you want. But if I guy is watching and not telling you, or you catch him and he's embarrassed or in denial, then I think you have entered a whole new territory. Couples must be honest to survive. If a guy tells you he watches, or inquires about it, that's one thing. But if you "catch" him watching, or he's watching behind your back, I'd say that is a definite red flag in a relationship. At the same time, ladies, what if YOU like to watch it, and he doesn't know? He catches you watching, how would that play? There's a huge dif between smoking pot and smoking meth...

Y should they fantasise other woman

My fiancé and I watch porn together and we bond very well and I have learned his fantasies and he absolutely loves it. Porn isn't cheating. I know you girls have looked at other men, so therefore that's cheating right? No. It's not cheating and you seriously make yourself sound stupid by saying he's mentally cheating.

@alka I agree with you.

To be honest i would rather have my boyfriend not fantasizing about other women at all. Porn is disgusting and clearly a no for me.

I never really thought about him watching porn as cheating. I'm ngl, I did ask my bf to stop watching it a while ago. I didn't ask him to stop because he was "cheating" though, i asked him to stop because him watching other women (naked, might I add), pleasuring themselves or eachother or doing other things just makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him, it damages my selfesteem... Idk why I felt like I should share that :p

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