2. Spontaneous

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Being able to “go with the flow” is one of the traits men 👍 in women the most, and I must admit I’m still not nearly as spontaneous as my fiance would like me to be, although I’m working on it.

Most of our men would never sing in front of us (professional singers excluded) but they just love to hear us sing (even if it sounds more like howling), they ❤️ to see us dance around the house, they will gladly throw us a surprise if they know the reaction will be positive and they ❤️ to see us being us (even if it involves a certain dose of silliness).2

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Comments:

Karen
Take all of these with a grain of salt. There are many examples that prove this list to be faulty. Overall, don't kill yourself for the guy. BE yourself. Then you'll never have to remember if you're following any rules like theses.
Fatuma Mohamed
I'm not a good cook 😑😑
Sam
@Cid, this may not be true since I've never really been in a relationship (:P), but I'd rather have someone be spontaneous and be themselves, than for them to hold themselves back or be too shy to do things they love.
Megan
"Pretty is, as pretty does." Pick a man who values both.
Jessica
Making breakfast for him was great in the morning. His way of saying thank you it was delicious was the most amazing feeling!
Leestic
Its funny how a woman can have all these qualities but he still cheats on her. Very interesting
Leestic
@Michifer, I absolutely love your comment! I feel the same way lol
noussa
I have all of these qualities and yet :'( just bcuz im a bit chubby it doesnt count
Cid
So... not to put a fly in this very nice ointment... but do men really appreciate spontaneity, or do they just want you to do what they want, when they want, with little thought to you or inconvenience to themselves? Because I don't really see the authors elaboration on being spontaneous having anything to do with that, and more with just being comfortable in your own skin and being genuine... which should be everyones goal. Just IMHO.
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