12 Things Men Like in Women More Than Good Looks …

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4. Accomplished And Fulfilled


Women who actually enjoy the things they do are more attractive, which means you should definitely stop whining about the things you DON’T have and start enjoying the things you DO! It’s not about being extremely beautiful, having a good job, an impressive resume or whatnot – it’s about you being happy for who you are as a person, it’s about being positive, about knowing that you’re a great woman who deserves great things. And, believe me, it’s true that bad luck never travels alone, but the same can be said for good luck as well.

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  1. November 2, 2011 at 11:25 pm Permalink
    Olga Kaushan says:
    This is an amazing list! I will only add “positive and cheerful”. From my experience guys love girls who exude happiness.
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    • November 8, 2011 at 1:58 am
      Sheila says:
      Yes! In Audrey Hepburn’s words, “Happy girls are the prettiest!” :)
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  2. January 16, 2012 at 4:29 pm Permalink
    AsianBeauty says:
    I dont feel like those criterias really matter to high school guys. I think that most of them would have chosen a really gorgeous girl even if she is dumb…I guess that seeing beyond a ... See more good look comes with maturity !
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    • May 11, 2012 at 9:38 pm
      Anonymous says:
      @AsianBeauty, you’re absolutely correct. Most high school guys are attracted to superficial appearance and perceived popularity over substance. My son is a high school senior, and he’s been disgusted by some of the ... See more dating choices his friends have made and watched the pairings come and go. He has lots of friends that are girls, and several who would love to be his “girlfriend”, but has decided to wait until college to pursue anything serious.
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    • January 16, 2012 at 5:03 pm
      AsianBeauty says:
      I meant *I dont feel THAT* sorry for the mistake im French ahahah x)
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  3. February 12, 2012 at 8:11 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hm. Well as a man, I have to say that all of these things are completely accurate.
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    • April 23, 2012 at 4:57 pm
      Anonymous says:
      You’re awesome! Lol.
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  4. December 29, 2011 at 2:50 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    hi,…this list includes everything a guy wants in a girl ,gr8 list i must say.. and i think some guys also like child like innocenct and cute girl ,so i’ll add on “child like innocence”…but ... See more that doesn’t mean behave like an immature kid all time..instead show him your genuine cute ness and innocence…he’ll definitely like it.. (:
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  5. November 29, 2011 at 5:03 pm Permalink
    Ali says:
    i love this list I think i do almost everything on this list but i am not sure. i really like a guy and i am just always myself, but he hasnt asked me ... See more out. my friends say that he likes me, but he is just really nerveous around girls
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    • May 4, 2012 at 3:36 am
      Sharon says:
      @Ali, i really liked many guys in high school and beyond, and tried to be all those things on the list, but it never mattered. I would see other girls making out ... See more with the guys I liked and think, “Why her? What’s so great about her, other than that she has a nice body?” I didn’t want to believe it was my being overweight, but I finally got it. Now I’m almost 50, and nothing’s changed. Guys would rather be with a slim girl, even if she has a plain face and not that accomplished or fun-loving, than be caught dead with an overweight woman. Their buddies might think, “Is that all he could get?” It’s a big deal among guys — a status thing. I read “He’s Just Not That Into You” by Greg Behrendt,, and it was another shock. He says that if a guy wants to meet you and talk to you, you will know. Even if he’s shy, please don’t call him, ask him out or pursue him. Even very shy guys find a way to meet someone they like. Be patient, and be philosophical if he never contacts you. You can’t be all things to all people. And if he really is too nervous to ask for your number, then he doesn’t want to try hard enough to overcome his problem. Please don’t “help” him. Other girls may argue that they have a boyfriend and they asked him out, or they’re heavy, but someone asked them out. These are the exceptions to the rule, and don’t always work out. Some guys may say they like it when a girl asks them out, but when a guy breaks up with a girl, it’s most often with the one who asked him out, not the other way around.
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  6. February 23, 2012 at 6:32 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    use good language too, Don’t Ever use foul language in front of a guy it does make you unattractive.
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  7. November 27, 2011 at 3:24 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hi there’s this guy in my class (he is cute) but we just stare at each other (but we really don’t like each other) he did say I looked cute with my glasses but when ... See more i’m doing my work he glances at me for a short time when he does his work I glance at him for a short time, does that mean anything? please tell me what should i say & do next time i see him. PLEASE HELP ME. :)
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    • December 28, 2011 at 7:12 pm
      Anonymous says:
      It means that neither of you is ready for any type of a relationship. Stick to your school work, when a boy is ready he will walk up to you and say something like ... See more Hi. And when you are ready you will know what to do next.
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    • May 7, 2012 at 7:10 am
      Deborah says:
      Just start by saying hi to him and try to be friends first before anything else
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    • November 29, 2011 at 5:07 pm
      Ali says:
      I have to say, the same exact thing happened to me, but i have a HUGE crush on him. if he looks at you, just stare right back. Not creepy stalker stare, but a nice, ... See more “Hey im checking you out” stare. If he holds eye contact, give him a nice smile. Not a filrty smile, just a “hey, im smiling becasue im happy” one. Chances are, hell smile right back! i hope this works and i know that i am not a team member, but i love to give advice! :)
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  8. March 19, 2012 at 9:31 am Permalink
    Michigan DUI says:
    hey thanks foe share this very use ful tips.
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  9. February 15, 2012 at 10:00 pm Permalink
    sandra says:
    these are all good facts
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  10. March 19, 2012 at 8:15 pm Permalink
    like? says:
    Theres this guy, and i dont know if i like him yet. but he seems like a really nice guy, hes good looking, and hes single. We’ve hung out, he drove me around on his ... See more motorcycle. i know he likes me and i might like him. but he recently just got dumped, i dont want to be his rebound. what should i do? is it a good idea to start a relationship with him this soon?
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    • March 21, 2012 at 4:52 pm
      RavenSky says:
      I would say no. If he got dumped not too long ago, it won’t be healthy for either of you, because he still has to get over his ex. Instead, try to show him that ... See more you’re a reliable and caring girl by listening to him and help him through this difficult time. In return, he will probably like you even more, because you show him that you really care about him and that he can trust you.
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