6. A Good Cook

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Our grandmas used to say that the only way to get to a man’s heart is through his stomach – remember that one?

Well, we have learned by now that’s not the only way, although it certainly is one of the ways and, if I may add, a very good one.

Men love women who can cook and women who would be willing to learn to cook for them.

That’s when that traditional part of the brain turns on to note the woman in question would be a good wife.

It’s a cliche, I know, but even experts agree on this one!



Uhm, hello. I'm not sure if the discussion here is still on going, but i do want to share a problem of mine. I'm still a junior in high school and I'm a girl. I have been through 3 rejections and 1 breakup. As of right now, my life is being complicated. Actually, i got rejected 3 times by the same person, who played with my heart. And, this person who i'll call "J" asked me homecoming and i started liking him on summer after i broke up with my first bf 4 months after. He just also broke up with his first gf too. Its a really long story, so I wont go any further, but this guy did say he likes me and he acted like i was his gf thats why i fell for him some more. I waited for 2 months and he blew it... I tried after another month, rejected, then 5 months past, not even a chance... For the time being, two guys followed. One asked me if we could go out, the second one told me he really likes me. For the first guy, i only find him as a friend, and as for the second one... We only started talking for about 2 weeks only, but i could tell that we get along well. This guy told about me to his family and his 2 ex's. He made one of them talk to me and have a chat of how he is really serious about me. The truth is, he's white, but he doesnt consider him as white. As for me, i'm asian and for those 4 guys i got into, they were all asians because i havent been interested in white guys. He is actually my first caucasian friend. He's really sweet and we talk mostly the whole day and we dont get tired of each other (hopefully we wont in the future.) Although, he gets jealous easily when i talk to him about other guys. Well, here is the thing.. I think i' falling for him as well, too. However, my parents are very strict and i am still not allowed to date (not that he asked me already, were waiting patiently, while getting to know more about each other) and they have something against short guys, which i find unecessary. I'm worried of what will happen because if they meet him someday they might not like him. He really wants to meet my parents and he wants to introduce me to his parents as well. I'm really confuse because some of my friends doesn't have a good vibe on him, but some say to get to know him more because he is nlt a bad person at all. I'm just scared of what his real intention is, and i'm scared of getting hurt again. Being a girl is hard. >~<. thank you guys who read it up to the finish. I'm really grateful. Please advise me for something i could do. Thank you very much. I know it's too long, sorry.
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