i love this list I think i do almost everything on this list but i am not sure. i really like a guy and i am just always myself, but he hasnt asked me ...See more out. my friends say that he likes me, but he is just really nerveous around girls
Sharon :
@Ali, i really liked many guys in high school and beyond, and tried to be all those things on the list, but it never mattered. I would see other girls making out ...See more with the guys I liked and think, “Why her? What’s so great about her, other than that she has a nice body?” I didn’t want to believe it was my being overweight, but I finally got it. Now I’m almost 50, and nothing’s changed. Guys would rather be with a slim girl, even if she has a plain face and not that accomplished or fun-loving, than be caught dead with an overweight woman. Their buddies might think, “Is that all he could get?” It’s a big deal among guys — a status thing. I read “He’s Just Not That Into You” by Greg Behrendt,, and it was another shock. He says that if a guy wants to meet you and talk to you, you will know. Even if he’s shy, please don’t call him, ask him out or pursue him. Even very shy guys find a way to meet someone they like. Be patient, and be philosophical if he never contacts you. You can’t be all things to all people. And if he really is too nervous to ask for your number, then he doesn’t want to try hard enough to overcome his problem. Please don’t “help” him. Other girls may argue that they have a boyfriend and they asked him out, or they’re heavy, but someone asked them out. These are the exceptions to the rule, and don’t always work out. Some guys may say they like it when a girl asks them out, but when a guy breaks up with a girl, it’s most often with the one who asked him out, not the other way around.
Anonymous :
@Sharon, Wow. I feel sorry for your situation, but you have a very negative outlook. Maybe if you cheered up a bit, and took pride in yourself, someone would see through your outside appearance. Or, ...See more if you really think guys will never overcome the overweight-thing, then exercise more and eat very healthy. I know a bunch of overweight girls with guys who want to ask them out. But negativity will never get you anywhere.
Taurus :
@Heather, yep when we see a girl we like but think she’s way out of our league or alreay probably taken, what do we do. Go for it and ask a guy out ;)
i love this list I think i do almost everything on this list but i am not sure. i really like a guy and i am just always myself, but he hasnt asked me ... See more out. my friends say that he likes me, but he is just really nerveous around girls