13 Things Men Say That Women Completely Hate ...

By Tyjuana

13 Things Men Say That Women Completely Hate ...

Call it honesty if you'd like, but there are conversations filled with things men say that women hate. It’s a case of freedom of speech gone wild! As a matter of fact, as I write this, I continue to come up with more ways our male counterparts put their crusty feet in their mouths. For now though, here are the seven things men say that women hate.

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1

Random Smile Requests

What has to be the worst of the things men say that women hate is that we hate to smile. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful, but more often than not I am asked to share a grin while minding my own business. I should be able to walk into the drugstore (of course, to get some time-of-the-month products!) without having a total stranger request that I smile. What is it that I'm supposed to be smiling at anyway?!

2

Dissin’ Your Job

Perhaps you're not exactly using your college degree. This doesn't give a man the right to pat you on the head and brush off your moneymaker as "just a job." In today’s economy he should be glad you’re employed, period! If it's an honest living, work your heart out.

3

When He Describes Another Woman

There is nothing wrong with giving harmless compliments. We girls are guilty of looking twice at a hottie, right? However, even the most confident woman doesn't want to hear her man go on and on about how big someone's butt is. Oh my God, Becky!

4

It's Complicated

Seriously, girls, any man over the age of 18 knows what he wants, or doesn't want, in a relationship. It’s time for him to define the status! He knows what he likes in a car and in a sneaker; his choice in a woman is no different. Either he's all in or he's not, so don't accept things as merely "complicated."

5

His Take on plus-sized Women

Just because I'm a size eight doesn't give me the right to make fun of voluptuous women. Same holds true for the men. Yet, I have been on several short-lived dates where I've the line "I don't like fat chicks!" managed to fall out of the mouths of idiots. Tell me I’m not alone here!

Famous Quotes

Men in general judge more from appearances than from reality. All men have eyes, but few have the gift of penetration.

Niccolò Machiavelli
6

The Infamous Cat Calls

In what is borderline sexual harassment, a cat call gets on my last nerve! What is a cat call, you ask? By all means, take your pick: hey baby; yo, baby; baby girl. Clearly, some men have a deep-seated issue with parenting, or the lack thereof. Cat calls are annoying, demeaning, and ridiculous!

UPD:

Catcalling is a form of street harassment, which is defined as “unwanted comments, gestures, and actions forced on a stranger in a public place without their consent and is directed at them because of their actual or perceived sex, gender, gender expression, or sexual orientation”. It is a form of sexual harassment and can be extremely uncomfortable, intimidating and even frightening for the recipient.

Catcalls are often directed at women, and can range from whistles and shouts of “Hey, baby!” to more explicit comments and gestures. Catcalling can be seen as a form of sexual objectification, as it reduces a woman to her physical appearance and implies that she is available for sexual advances. It is also a violation of a woman’s right to feel safe in public spaces, as it can make her feel threatened and vulnerable.

Unfortunately, catcalling is a common occurrence in many cities and towns. Studies have found that over 85% of women have experienced some form of street harassment, with the majority of it being verbal. Catcalling is not only disrespectful and inappropriate, but it is also illegal in many places.

7

His Sex Drive

Men like to impress women by boasting about how skilled he is in the bedroom. Somewhere, they were told that talking about what they can do to us is a good idea. Unless there is a video available for download, he shouldn't be bragging about his sex drive. A real man doesn’t have to brag, anyway. However, it makes for an interesting challenge though. Truth or dare, anyone?

8

Talking about Their Ex

Whether he is comparing or talking trash about her, the fact is you don’t want to hear about his ex. We don’t care if she would always burn everything she cooked, didn’t help pay rent, or wore sleazy outfits. Women want to know how you like their cooking, how you appreciate their help, and how much you love the way their jeans fit. However, we don’t want to hear how much better than your ex we are.

9

If You Love Me then

This is a big no-no... right, ladies?! How much do you hate it when your guy says, “Well, if you love me then you’ll do this for me?”...not! Yes, we love you, but if you love us you wouldn’t say things like that.

10

Dissin’ Your Friends

Other than dissin’ our job, men should also know better than to diss our friends, especially one that we’ve known since childhood. Your friend may not be perfect, but she’s always there when you need her. So what if she’s always running late or she loves her wine? As long as she isn’t taking advantage of you, he should respect that she’s always going to be your friend. He doesn’t have to like her, but just be respectful.

11

You’re Just like Your Mother

Oh no he didn’t! Not only is he dissin’ your mother, but he is also dissin’ you! So, by saying you’re just like your mother, does he not like your mom? Also, if your mom does have her issues, is he saying that you have those issues too? It’s just not a place he really wants to go, so guys, don’t go there!

12

You Remind Me of My Mother

Other than hearing we’re just like our own mother, we also don’t want to hear that we remind you of your mother! Even if your boyfriend’s or husband’s mother is amazing, we just don’t want to hear it. The relationship men have with their wives shouldn’t be compared to the one he has with his mom.

13

Are You PMSing?

We’ve all been there and have heard it since our teen years from guys and girls: “Is it that time of the month?” or “Are you PMSing?” Do they really want the answer to that?! Although we’ve heard it from some of our girl friends, it is just worse when we hear it from a guy. Our girls can relate and will actually help us eat a tub of ice cream! However, no guy will ever understand, so they just shouldn’t ask!

So these are a few of the topics, filled with things men say that women hate. It’s about time the fellows know that silence is golden. Here’s a tip for the men reading this: shut the hell up! Ladies, do you have any more to add to this list? What things do men say that make your blood boil?

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Yes! Also when your boyfriend talks to girls you can't stand and he knows you can't stand them.

#5 just pisses me off as a plus sized girl I got that a lot by men,one went as far as saying 'You'd be cuter if you were a bit smaller, XD what?

Have any of you even met a 100th of the men on this planet? If not, then all uour sweeping generalisations about men are pseudoscientific at best and, more accurately, utter bollocks. Is it ok for women to do all of these things to other women? Maybe the article should be entitled \"13 things that some people say that some other people hate.\" Any excuse for primitive tribalism...

#1-7 were all good! Adding to 7, it reminded me of my friend and how her ex would count the days they didn't "do the deed" as just a random comment blurting out the number, sometimes in front of her mother. Ugh! Yuck! He really knew how to get the mood going! -sarcasm

I can't stand when guys say stuff like please for me or I'd do it for you. If I wanted to do it I would have done it.

I agree w #5!! I h8 it wen guys judge women bc of their weight!! Its so mean

It's your poor choice in men. Every self respecting, and woman respecting man, knows not to say these things. The only ones that don't are thugs, deadbeats, and meatheads. One of the reasons I know you are picking the wrong guys is you mention wearing sneakers. Unless he's working out or taking the kids to the field museum, there's absolutely no reason for a grown man to wear sneakers. This is what kills me. I'm single, decent looking, good job, cultured, and intelligent, yet I always see the best ones with a douche. I'm not sure how you meet these guys, but most of you set yourselves up for failure from the start, then wonder how it went wrong. I guess if your not smart enough to distinguish between a guy who will take care of you and a guy who will take advantage of you, your not intelligent enough anyway.

Great article, right on point!

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