6. Encouragement

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Men like and need encouragement.

They like to know that the woman they love is in their corner, cheering them on.

Your belief in them is important.

They think that if you believe in them then surely they can accomplish whatever obstacles they are up against in their life.2

In return, you will find they are always in your corner.



Husnul, I understand where you are coming from. I used to be the same way. The first thing when trying to confront and change this situation is by not worrying about him, but try and figure out yourself. I saw that you are jealous, but it is probably because you have little self confidence. You must gain that self confidence. Work out, do something different with your hair or do something that makes you feel better. I seen your picture and you look very pretty, you must embrace that beauty though and you will start feeling more confident. Just learn to become happier about things in life and try to become more positive. If your happy, he will be happy. If your sad I think he would tend to be sad also. Be yourself, the positive you that you know you are. I hope this advice helps Husnul :)
Summer Vegas
@Husnul, it is cute what you wrote. It's okay. You're a challenge for him. Sometimes, guys need hardship before settling down. In all, you're not doing anything wrong. It's in your nature and either he accepts it or moves on.
Darryl Sangual
@Mitota, I think number 9 covers the "space" men wanted, "Men love their independence. This doesn't mean that they want to be left alone all of the time, but they do like to be able to do #things on their own without having to check in or be made to feel guilty. Remember to give your guy time on his own to hang out with his friends or just have some alone #time."
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