17 Things Men Who Are anti-Relationship 🚫💏 Want Women to Understand 🤔 ...

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Some people don't like being in relationships.

It happens to men, happens to women, happens to anybody.

Maybe you're into someone who is not into relationships or maybe you feel that way yourself.

Everyone's absolutely entitled to their own opinion, but the issue has a few different perspectives that are worth considering.

There are things women and men who don't want a relationship need to understand, even if they don't ultimately change their minds.

1. You Aren't Going to Be Controlled if You Commit

You Aren't Going to Be Controlled if You Commit

Commitment doesn't equal control – at least it shouldn't, not in a healthy relationship.

You're still a person, you still have autonomy, you're just including someone else in your life.

2. Girls Are Typically More Mature and Want a Relationship

Girls Are Typically More Mature and Want a Relationship

Girls do mature faster than guys, you know.2

As for wanting a relationship, many but not all women do seem to crave monogamy more, but there are men who want relationships, too.

3. Know the Person Whom You Call Your Girlfriend

Know the Person Whom You Call Your Girlfriend

You need to know the person you want to be in a relationship with – especially if you don't really want a relationship but do really care about your partner.

Know them through and through.

There has to be a level of trust if you're going to ever even consider this.

4. Commitment Isn't Going to Change Anything with the Right Girl

Commitment Isn't Going to Change Anything with the Right Girl

Seriously, it won't turn her into a clingy, possessive person or something.

But that's why you need to know someone very well before you commit – no surprises.

5. If It Doesn't Work out, It's Okay

If It Doesn't Work out, It's Okay

You don't have to commit for life.

A relationship isn't automatically a marriage.

Sometimes things don't work out.

6. You Might Have Baggage …

You Might Have Baggage …

After all, why are you so against relationships?

7. … She Does Too

… She Does Too

The key is finding someone who can deal with your baggage, whose baggage you can deal with, and – ideally – someone whose baggage matches your baggage.

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