7 Things Not to Post on Facebook after a Breakup ...

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If you have recently had your heart ripped out of your chest, you should be aware that there are certain things not to post on Facebook after a breakup.

It’s difficult to think clearly when you are reeling from emotional pain so I’m here to help you.

Below are a few things not to post on Facebook after a breakup when you are hoping for reconciliation.

1. Venting about the Breakup

It’s so tempting to post a lot of status updates when you are hurting from a breakup.2

But one of the things not to post on Facebook after a breakup are your true feelings about the actual breakup.

I know you probably think that your ex will see how devastated you are and rush back into your arms but this rarely happens.

He’s in self-preservation mode because he is hurting as well, even if it;s not obvious on the surface.2

2. I-Miss-You Declarations

Even if you miss your ex every second of the day, avoid posting I-miss-you messages on your wall.

It will take some time to adjust being without him, so of course you are going to miss him.2

But don’t pour your misery out in long I-miss-you declarations.

If your goal is to get him back at some point, this is the last thing you should do.2

Those angst-filled posts on your wall are going to make him feel secure enough to date other people because he knows you are missing him and are waiting for him to come back.2

3. I-Love-You and Can’t-Be-without-You

Nothing screams desperation like this post.

No, it’s not romantic in this context and it won’t make him come back.

These posts will only make him lose that attraction to you because he is going to see you as a desperate and lost woman instead of someone awesome that he shouldn’t have ever let go.

There are times in which those three words are perfect but this is not one of them.

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