4. Fertility Issues

If you’ve been struggling with infertility then it could have a negative effect on your sex drive.

Ironically, that’s the last thing you want to occur when you want to be having more sex but it happens.

You can get so focused on trying to conceive that sex becomes more of a chore than a pleasure.

Sex becomes associated with feeling pressured and that kills romance.

While conceiving is important, you also need to guard this special part of your relationship with your partner for the connection it gives you, too.



Luckily my S.O. Is NOT a boxer. They have to abstain before a fight.
Porn causing an issue really depends on the relationship though.
Jacqueline Amador
I think this article is missing one thing. PORN. Don't get me wrong, having visuals can not only be fun but also great for putting you in the mood with or without your parter, but it is also very damaging when it is over used. Think about it this way; watching something on a screen that turns you on over and over stimulates your "pleasure button". When over stimulated, having real life sex can be less pleasurable because it does not meet the same expectations as watching porn.
Brittany Marie
Football season should have been on here lol
Very true and also not getting sexy or all set up to get sexually attracted to may be one of the causes. Sometimes the guy would just randomly look at you and realize how beautiful you are and he'll get closer and start it all πŸ‘ŒπŸΌ get set up and look pretty meanwhile he's watching
Or plan sex earlier at night if don't want or can't go to bed at the same time.
I 100% agree with the bed time one! Going to bed at different times completely ruins it. You both need to be in sync and bed time togetherness is important.
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