You only get one shot to make a first impression so here are 10 things that are actually supposed to happen on a date. Remember, you don’t get a second chance. You have to be impressionable from the start. So, next time you go out with a man you think might be a keeper, refer to this list of things that are supposed to happen on a date.
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1. Let the Man Be the Man
Men should take charge. They’re the ones who are supposed to make the plan. It’s their job to arrange all of the details for each date. They’re the man. Let them act like one. The man planning is one of the things that are supposed to happen on a date.
2. Have Dinner
If you didn’t meet him online, you should encourage a dinner date. Drinks is an audition, dinner is a real date. When you have dinner with someone, it’s easier to get to know him over a meal. You can see his manners and spend more quality time together.
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3. Drink….in Moderation
I don’t believe that drinking on a date is a bad thing. Some people need a drink or two to help them feel more relaxed. If that’s your thing, make sure you know your limit so you can enjoy the date. However, drinking in moderation is key. Getting sloppy isn’t sexy.
4. Be Stimulating
Men like women who can teach them something. They want to date someone who’s intellectually curious. On a date, you should be having conversations that are unique. Anyone can talk about their job and their friends. If you’re stimulating, you’ll be hard to forget.
5. Smile
Smile. It’s that simple. Men are drawn to women who have a fabulous smile. Flash your pearly whites as often as you can. Keep in mind that men respond well to positivity.
6. Q&a
Asking questions seems like an obvious thing of what you’re supposed to do on a date. Right? I would think so! If you seem curious about the man sitting across from you, he’ll be eager to tell you all about him. There’s a difference between asking questions and making someone feel like they’re on an interview. Ask him questions but don’t make him feel like he’s being grilled.
7. Listen Carefully
Being a good listener is just as important as being a great conversationalist. Listening is a skill. When you ask him questions, listen to his answers. Don’t interrupt him.
8. Confidence is Key
Men want a woman who exudes confidence. Believe it or not, confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear. A fully clothed confident woman is equally as sexy as a naked woman! When you’re self-assured and love yourself, people will want to be around you.
9. Let Him Pay
In the beginning, the first few dates are his treat. Don’t offer to pay half, and don’t do the fake reach. Men can see right through that. After dinner, don’t forget to be polite and thank him for a yummy meal.
10. It’s His Move
You see the pattern here. He’s the man. He plans the date, pays on the date, and of course, he makes the move. Men are simple; if they want to kiss you, they will.
Dating is all about getting to know someone and creating a good impression. Do you have anything to add to the list of things that are supposed to happen on a first date?
Comments
Betty: Yeh we do see the pattern women should sit back and do nothing! Taking us back 100 years do you want any rights or shall we just stay at home and let the men do 'everything'!!
Kiara: Omg these articles are getting stupider by the second.
Mari: Really if you want to pay there are many men out there who will let you but it's usually the man who pays on the first date so relax a bit
Viktoria: I guess some women here didn't understand the article... Especially pointing that 'we have to expect the man to pay the dinner' .... In my opinion exactly like some of you mentioned we are not living 100 years backwards and we live in society where is accepted that the man is the strongest sex and he look after the woman... And not only moral says this.... Even his nature! So I suggest we respect that in men instead of trying being one... If on a first date the guy wants to pay and you don't let him you are hitting his self confidence to look after you... Which it's not really polite... And if he don't offer to pay the bill I think you know- money matter more for him than you 😊
Betty: Men paying for the first few dates is a cultural thing and up to the individual, what I disagree with is the 'men should take charge' it's completely undermining women in every possible way!
Virgen: I'm glad to see that I am not the only one that think this article is stupid, "let the man be the man"? What that even means? Let them cut the grass and wash the car?
Jennapher: I am confused! I thought we liked a man from whom we can learn, because, you know, like basically, when it comes to complicated stuff, well, I certainly don't know anything about the Middle East, or why being strong up the middle is important in baseball, or how many hours there are in a day! HE should explain it to me. And then like, he calls me up for a date, he says let's get something to eat, and I say, like fine, you pick the place, I'm chill. And so we go to this Thai place, and like, um, I don't know nothing about this food, so I'm like asking him all kinds of questions about what to order, and what stuff tastes like, and like he's really into explaining it all. And we have, you know, like a really good time, he takes the check and hey, I'm down with that, it's his date, he should pay, but I ask him about the tip, you know, because I hate guys who are cheap tippers, I tell him leave 20%, and he's like, why should I do that, and I say, because, like, you know, what is it a couple of dollars more, and it's just nice, and the waitress was really nice; so he leaves a bigger tip,and I give him my best, like, smile of approval. So he's gonna drop me off, and like he's waiting for me to ask him in, and I don't do that on the first date, and he goes to kiss me, and I turn to face him, like, and he kisses me on the lips, and I like let him have a taste, then turn and open the car door, and like I say to him, hey, call me OK...
Sherri: Except reaching for our wallet isn't being fake lol, we really do intend to split the bill. Expecting men to pay for your meal is rude. Sure if he's a gentleman he'll offer and that's a nice gesture but don't expect it, come on.
Mayssam: jennapher, i've read three different articles you happen to have commented on and you're incredibly annoying.
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