9 Things to do in Bed 🛏 All Long Term 💏 Couples Should Try ...

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When you’ve been together for eons, things get comfortable, including sex.

Even if you still very much enjoy sex with your partner, there’s never anything wrong with spicing things up a little or trying new things.

A reinvigorated sex life flows through into your relationship and instead of your partnership feeling like a pair of comfortable slippers, you’re suddenly walking in a pair of shiny new Louboutins.

Ready to step it up?

1. Experiment with the Usual Power Dynamic

Is it your partner who is usually the person to dominate and be the proactive force in the bedroom?2

Why not turn the tables and see what it feels like to take charge and have them at your mercy instead?

Switching up the bedroom dynamics can be a really fun and revelatory experience for both of you.

2. Reignite Your Powers of Seduction

The sex life of a long-term couple can sometimes become a little stale and formulaic.

Combat this by treating your encounters as if you were back at the early stages of your relationship.2

A little role-play in these situations can be really exciting and put a huge spark back in to the bedroom gymnastics.

3. Indulge in Your Hidden Fantasies

Get a bowl, get some paper, and individually write down some of your hidden fantasies.

Mix them all together and then have a fun evening (or longer) pulling them out and having fun together making each other’s fantasies a reality.

It’s good to share these kinds of desires with your partner;

they are always eager to help out!

4. Take Turns at ‘Being Selfish’

Long term couples will often get in to a routine of certain actions during sex, so you should break the chain by taking turns at being completely selfish and demanding certain things from your partner for ultimate pleasures purposes.

Of course, it all evens out because after you have got your rocks off, it will be time to do everything that he wants too!

Add Some Kinkiness in to Your Sex Life
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