7. Keep the Ball in Your Court

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When it comes to things to say and not to say when texting boys, you always want the ball in your court. If a guy asks you to hang out, keep it short. Go with a "sure" or "cool" and see if he responds with plans. If he doesn't, tell him you're pretty busy and need to check your schedule. Don't make him feel like a priority. A way to keep the ball in your court is by making sure he texts you last. That way if you ever feel like texting him first, which shouldn't be too often, you can because he was the last one. Make the last text you send him something he has to respond to, that way you're in the clear on leaving the conversation.

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Some these I use but most importantly be your self no guys (unless there jerks or players) like fake girls if your not all about being sexy then your not. It's simple when your with somebody just reme...
@Erica, Idk but I want sex but not while I'm on my fuckin period
@Haylin Huang, I so agree
But why do you have volunteer to tell your dude your "on" unless he wants to have sex? Just like I don't care about his erection unless I want it, why would he care about your period?
@Natasha D'Souza ...men never stop thinking about sex, ever, even if there is other convo going on!!! If your in a relationship, great but this is tips, to me, for new relationships. Don't give a guy ...
I don't think it's all about playing games or lying but more so just letting that guy know he's not always priority, make him work for you! You can be honest but does he need to know everything, all the time... It's fun to wanted! Don't be predictable!
Wow! Great advice!.... I'm the "too much info" texter so this is great!!!!
ChloΓ© Evelyn Lamb
I do agree you shouldn't jump at the chance to hang out in the beginning especially and if you have other things you planned to do that day.. like even just to go to the gym or church things that are ...
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