15 Things We Wish Men Knew ...


No predominately-female website would be complete without at least one list of things we wish men knew. Being โ€œthe girl that hangs with the guysโ€, I've heard some rather interesting conversations. Between musings about childhood action figures and video-game strategy tips, I've learned that one thing they want the most is to know what we're thinking. Apparently understanding quantum physics is less confusing than the thoughts of, to quote Grey's Anatomy, โ€œus with the boobsโ€. Well, guys, here's your chance. I'm going to let you in on some of the things we wish men knew. I don't presume to speak for all womankind, but this is what I've observed over the years.

1. Shut up and Listen

This is at the top of every โ€œthings we wish men knewโ€ list I've ever read. While we appreciate your desire to solve our problems, that's not always what we need. Sometimes we just need to talk things out and feel like we've been heard. When we do, try not to drift off into space or mentally draw things on our faces the way you did when you got lectures from your mom. Just listen, respond and get through it.

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these are the things in every woman's dreams. all I ever want is help aroind the house and I don't get it and when I ask for it I get a "ugh I haven't sat down all day!" or "stop nagging" newsflash me...
This is the bible
@Lynaah , I wouldn't want a man to put me ahead of his kids but I sure as hell would want to be more of a priority than his mom or ex-wife. I think *that's* what she's getting at...that, or more important than his job or something.
@Lynaah ,
Love no. 4!!!
What about if the guy has children ? - you cant be first priority you will always be last 👎
seriously we dont live in an era anymore that is anything remotely close to how things were when we were young.so many now are raised to be materialistic.it used to be when people would concern themse...
and than theres the ones who are so full of themselves and think of nothing but meanwhile your emotions are on the rise because you realy expect a change that never happens and at this point youv alre...
LOL Jill I once had a boyfriend who had just as bad PMS as I had, if not worse! He was a great guy, but two "intense" people in a relationship doesn't work. I think most men mean well but simply can...
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