7 Things You Should Keep in Mind before Entering a Relationship ...

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Romance is always in the air, especially around this time of year, but rather than falling in love with the idea of a relationship, understand that there are a few things to think about before entering a relationship.

Ladies, it’s so easy to get caught up in all the rom-coms and fantasies about having a boyfriend in your life, but did you ever stop and ask yourself before entering a relationship whether or not you’re actually READY?

Here are a few things to keep in mind.

1. You May Be Trying to Fill a Void

One of the most important questions you should be asking yourself before entering a relationship is: am I trying to fill a void?

Maybe you’ve just been burnt by a past relationship or maybe you haven’t been in a relationship for a while and you just want someone there for you.

If either of these cases is true, you may be trying to fill a void in your heart and life.

The truth is, though, I’ve seen too many close friends get into a relationship solely to fill a void in their lives and then ultimately get hurt all over again.

I don’t want that happening to you.

2. Think about How Much Time You Have

Time is of the essence.

This is a very important quote to live by.

Understand that if you’re transitioning in your life it may not be the best time to get into a relationship because you won’t have time for yourself, nor will you have enough time to give to someone else.

I’m a recent college graduate and have just recently started a new job – I have understood and realized that I need to dedicate time to get to know and better myself – by taking more time for me and my new job.

There’s no way I can take time for a boyfriend right now.

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