7 Things You Should Never Say to Your Husband ...


It is easy to utter words that you don't mean, in the heat of the moment, but there a some things you should never say to your husband.

Most of us have said things that we regret and that we wish we could take back.

Sadly, we cannot take back hurtful words or the pain caused by them.

Here are some things you should never say to your husband.

1. I Want a Divorce

One of the biggest things you should never say to your husband is that you want a divorce, if you don't.

Divorce is something that should never be part of your vocabulary.

Look at divorce as something that is not an option.

Mentioning a divorce could severely hurt both your husband and your marriage.2

Imagine how you would feel if he said those words.

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As for #6 - when my partner quit smoking, he gained a lot of weight and didn't seem to notice or care. Instead of a "direct attack", I suggested to him that he should join me in my fitness routine as a way to get healthier, gain confidence, and strengthen our bond. If you don't work out, but ask your partner to workout... It's pretty unfair and likely going to blow up in your face.
#7 seems to be assuming that the woman would be unemployed. I am the main provider in the relationship, and cover almost all of the bills. He only works a couple hours a week, while I cover the housing, bills, vehicle, insurance, etc... And we mutually discuss workloads and providing, so #7 definitely doesn't apply to this.
My husband is getting such a gut that it's a real turn-off for so many reasons...unattractive and yucky feeling during sex...also resentful that he's jeopardizing our future by being unhealthy ..I think keeping in reasonable shape and healthy is being respectful to each other ...and I'm not supposed to say anything cause of his feelings ???--Please!!!!!
@Sassy I agree. And never threaten divorce just to get your way.
Never say "I wish I'd never married you" or "My family doesn't like you"
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