7. I’m Fine (Not Really)

Lying about how you feel is one of the worst things you can do during an argument with your partner.

This LITERALLY gets you nowhere.

You are not really fixing anything by lying about how you are feeling during a fight.

The best thing to do is be honest no matter how hurtful it can be.

Fighting with the one person you really love can be horrible, but saying the wrong things can make it worse.

The tips above are some of the things you should avoid saying during an argument.

How you ever been in a fight where one wrong word made it worse than it should have been?

How did you handle it?

Comments:

Camille
Maybe I should've read this earlier...I've already said #1 & 2 today. I also say #7 a lot or "I'm not mad" when I am.
Sonu Routray
Oh shit I do all of it :-O
Tifyane Renee Smith
These tips are great. Arguments can kill relationships. That is the case now with mine. Hurtful things are said during a time of vulnerability and I feel so attacked. It seems like he doesn't care at all. I sent him the tips even though things aren't great right now. Hopefully he will see how the things he says really do hurt the relationship.
Abs Duke
These all make sense but when fighting it hard to be rational & say the right things. Good in theory but hard to do in practice
Rebecca
You have to swear when arguing!
Sandra G
Get out/ I want a divorce.
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