13 Things You Shouldn't Say in an Argument ...

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There are definitely some things you shouldn’t say in an argument.

I mean, I know that tempers are fraying and you are beyond mad, and probably quite hurt, but uttering some words can make the fight seem so much worse.

If you aren’t careful, a heated argument can become an all-out war, and maybe even the end of a great relationship.

Keep your wits about you, though, and avoid these things you shouldn't say in an argument.

1. It’s over

It’s over

This has to be one of the top things you shouldn’t say in an argument.

However hurt and upset you are, keep things like this to yourself unless you actually mean it.

The same goes for declaring that you are moving out, or that you want a divorce.

Unless it’s actually happening, and you are completely sure, don’t say it.2

I’m Fine

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Nikita
Minf
Nikita
Sometimes we criticise them for the mistakes they didnt even make. In the heat of the argument we might say stuff just like that. But to them it hurts and stays somewhere in the mind.
Richard Stroker
This is stupid just act like how ever you want. Be yourself and things will be a lot easier.
Joani
One thing I try not to do is say "you ALWAYS.." Or "you NEVER.." because I know that isn't true and can just get thrown back.
Kendra LUvyn ka'MaRi Harrison
Yes, iits over, iits all ur fault.
Nikki
Also, never compare them to anyone!
Caprice
@Megan Mena i was in a bad relation ship and it ended really badly just try to not let him bother u if he calls u a bitch just pretend like it didnt hurt u i had a friend that kept calling me that and every time she saw me get pissed at her she would laugh at me and keep making fun of me so i ignored her when she said that and she ended up stopping
Liannabelle
@Megan Mena it's time to go woman. Be strong, no woman deserves to be treated like that.
Cara
@Megan Mena those are just material things that don't matter at the end. It's your safety and health that does and let him burn your stuff it doesn't matter. Call the cops and they will gladly help you and watch you pack and get out. I had a friend in your shoes that it happened to and the cops did help. Just tell them your in an abusive relationship and your trying to leave it and you need their help in getting your stuff out and would feel safe if they came
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