19 Tips for Dating an Older Man ...


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So, you just started dating an older man for the first time but worry that you're ill-equipped for what the relationship will entail. Fear not! Because you're already dating, it's clear that you're awesome and will be just fine, despite your age difference. If that doesn't put your nerves at ease, here are a couple tips for dating a "seasoned" Mr. Right.

1. Be Patient

One of the biggest allures for younger women dating older men is the fact that older men tend to be more established. While you initially marvel over his fancy home and career, you will quickly learn that he must work hard (and often) to pay the bills and continue climbing the corporate ladder. Sometimes, this means less attention for you and almost always means that you and bew cannot be together every waking moment. If you want to make the relationship work, you have to be understanding of his time. Don’t whine if he can’t stay up chatting with you until 4am every night. Instead, work out a schedule to ensure that you both are able to spend time with one another without compromising your individual responsibilities

Be Spontaneous


I wish he could stop seeing me as a kid
Ritchie V
Interesting post, and comments. Dating an older man generally works for many reasons.
I'm dating a 30year old I hope I can really learn how to be patient in a lot of things he tells me I don't want to loose himπŸ˜ͺ
@Lavander, How old are you? If you don't mind me asking. I am currently dating a man 23 years older than me and I have never been happier, I just do not know how to tell my family.
Vina Nguyen
Aw that is so true! That every women needs to know how to cook fior they man and to be willing to raise a family and kids.
@paulapaula1, im 20 and im dating a 42 year old. age shouldnt matter =)
@patcharak, im 20 and im dating a 42 year old. age shouldnt matter =)
My man is 22 years older than me, and he is way more attractive, kind and loyal than all the other ones my age that I have met. I just wish society didnt have a problem with that.
I'm dating a 41 year old man, and he is amazing , the best relationship ive ever had. And no its not a bad thing to date a man who is older than you. It can be the best experience youve ever had =)
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