2. Don’t Try Too Hard

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It can be so easy when we are nervous to try a little harder to make a guy want us.

For instance, we might decide to spend extra time getting ready, and dress ourselves up all the time extra special.

Or, we may send him cards, texts, or other things to let him know we’re thinking about him.

Or, maybe you’re like me, and you tend to express yourself through your words.

If so, don’t overload him with how much you’re into him.

You can let him know in subtle ways without chasing him or trying too hard.

Guys like to know that girls are relaxed around them and comfortable enough around them to remain low key.

They also tend to like a girl who is a little shy, so don’t be too overbearing at first.

Guys hate a nag, and a whiny girl, so never, ever resort to either of these habits and expect to get positive results.

Don’t Appear Too High Maintenance


You have no idea how going natural really works. If morning sex is really good, go natural a lot more. Eyes and lipstick only. Good. 5 of 7 of these are really true, but disregard any advice thats says not to go for what you want. Making us wait for some things is ok, but let us know it will be there if we do. My current made me wait a month for a kiss, but boy, did her eyes shine when she saw me.
Denise Cristobal
Hi Zhen Wu. I don't understand how people can stand to play mind games. They are so tiring!
Denise Cristobal
Hi there. That's definitely something we all should remember. We also need to grow individually.
Don't plan everyday, every event, every single thing with your mate. Find your own circle of friends and split the time apart. Men enjoy being away from us to breathe a bit...if u are not into sports, leave him alone when he wants to hang during the playoffs.😍
When my husband and I were still dating, he told me the major thing he appreciates in our relationship is that he doesn't have to play any roles and just be himself. And it was mutual. 💞
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