Girls Guide ๐Ÿ“• to Discussing the Future ๐Ÿ”ฎ with Your BF ๐Ÿ’ when You Don't Know How ๐Ÿค ...

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Talking about the future of your relationship is a big step.2

Itโ€™s when you find out if youโ€™re on the same page and share the same dreams.

And you have to be prepared to learn that you might be looking to walk different paths.

Itโ€™s not easy to walk confidently into a conversation that is shrouded in uncertainty but you can be sensible in how you approach it.

1. Think about Timing, Pick the Right Moment

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When thinking about how to talk about your future with your partner, itโ€™s really important to judge the mood and pick the right time to bring it up.

You donโ€™t want to discuss the long term when you are doing something that will artificially elevate your mood like being on holiday, and equally you donโ€™t want to discuss when one or both of you are going through a tough time at work or has recently experienced something sad or traumatic.2

Timing is everything.

Wait until you are grounded and unburdened.

Be Open โ€˜Cos Neither of You Are Mind Readers!

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