4. Learn to Say No

Some boys feel the need to be around their girls 24/7 and some girls just love it!

If you arenโ€™t one of those girls, well, honey, time to practice your diplomatic skills!

If you arenโ€™t cool with him walking you home from work/school, being your shopping buddy for the day and whatnot, you should politely turn him down and offer to see him later or another day.

Thereโ€™s no shame in having other plans, not being in the mood or wanting to do something alone and the sooner you accept that, the sooner he will, too!

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Jessica Marie
Omg this sounds like my boyfriend 100% and it's ironic bc he is the sneaky one doing sketchy secret things online. I'm an open book, maybe too open, but for some reason he is so insecure I'm starting to resent him and I really don't want too, I love him. I don't know how much longer this can go on though. Fights every day. And guilt trips he loves to give me guilt trips!!!
Lil Lovely
I had this one boyfriend who'd always text me, and at first it was really sweet, he'd compliment me here and there, and we could talk for hours. But then after awhile he just always wanted to be with me, and got mad when I hung out with my friends instead of him... Later that night he said that if I wasn't gonna try in the relationship then we should end it, so I definitely wanted it to continue, so for a few days I just cut off from my friends(dumbest thing I ever did) I felt he was being possessive and I told him this, but he didn't understand and told me I was being a bad girlfriend. I just ended talking to him a bit earlier today because I was busy for Easter and 5 mins later he texts me and accuses me of ignoring him... I like him a lot but I don't think he's in this relationship with me because he likes me anymore, what should I do? (Ps sorry for the long comment)
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