7 Tips on How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back ...

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If you're heartbroken over the loss of a relationship, knowing a few tips on how to stop loving someone who doesn’t love you back can help you move on.

One of the most painful times in life is when you are still deeply in love and the other person announces that he isn’t in love with you anymore.

This brutal news may come as a complete shock or it may be something that you may have sensed long before he officially ended the relationship.

The best thing you can do is respect their decision and look towards the future with these tips on how to stop loving someone who doesn’t love you back.

1. It Takes Time

At this point, your heart and your mind are at complete war with each other.

Since you are still in love with him, your heart is going to replay all the happiest moments in the relationship trying to convince you that it can be that way again.

On the other hand, your mind is trying to comprehend that his feelings have changed and there is nothing you can do.

It takes time for your heart and mind to accept the reality and get in alignment with each other.

One of the best tips on how to stop loving someone who doesn’t love you back is to give yourself time to heal.

Grieve the Loss of What Could Have Been

Comments:

Neecey Beresford
@ajay, Absolutely and we recently started a special men's section http://men.allwomenstalk.com/
Justin
Yeah I was very happy, and have a young son, who had just turned 3, now he's 4 yo.and one day, she said she didn't love me anymore, and that was that. I also went through that pain, anger, looking back with tinted glasses. But now I have come through the other side, stronger, single, and I have my son for half the week, Inc weekends to fit round my job, so I feel very blessed that I still spend a lot of time with my son. I'm 41 and feel the future is bright for me and my son.
ajay
are man also allowed here
Chelsea
Stop counting the days!!!! You're focusing on it too much. I know it sounds hard but you just have to keep yourself busy and distance yourself, that includes with your thoughts. If you want to avoid someone, you will find away. Unless you HAVE to deal with that person or they're a complete nut. It's not complicated. I've been there, just occupy your time with something else, like...yourself. Post break up is a really good time to learn about yourself!!!
Nyadet
I've been trying soo hard to get over this guy. I blocked him from everything and tried distancing myself. At the moment I thought I was over him, he just comes back and talks to me like were bestfriends and the fact that everywhere we go together were accused of dating or people think we have a thigh for eachother and I know it's only one sided :(
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