4. There's Nothing Wrong with Having Standards

There's Nothing Wrong with Having Standards

I always tell my single friends that there is no need to settle. It's a good idea to have a "list" of "criteria" you would like a guy to meet.

You don't need to just be content to have a man who has no job, no interest in ever having a job or trade of any kind and likes to play XBox all day and party all night. But at the same time, keep your "list" and "criteria" loose. If you have such high standards that no guy will ever be able to meet them, you may end up alone forever! Remember that guys are human just like you and give them some space to live. Also, don't pass by a perfectly nice guy with your nose in the air just because you think you deserve a prince or a king.

There Are Plenty of Fish in the Sea


Heather Jensen
Hi!! I know that you will meet someone new and that they will cherish you!
if u alyays tll the guy to hold ur hand and u be the 1st 1 to tell him u love him what does tht mean
So I have been single for 5,5 years and dated several guys during this time and had more random encounters with a few more. The ones I have dated the ending has always been the same, they lose their i...
Khen DynamMik
@GJ, Don't look for the right guy. Don't go hunting him down or expecting one to come to you by trying some fancy trick you found on one of those "Get Him to Crave You" webpages. There are no tricks. ...
Heather Jensen
Very true! Thank you so much for the advice June!
don't let your friends dictate your choices is my advice.
Heather Jensen
I'm so sorry Stephany! Just keep trying, I know that the right guy is out there for you. Promise.
Stephany Nicole Kay West
Ugh I've just wanted to give up. I can't catch a break when it comes to men. I seem to only meet guys who want sex and when they realize I'm not going to give it up they lose interest. Or they're not ...
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