I’ve been talking to this guy for as long as I’ve known him (all of 2 weeks) and we hit it off the first time we met. We met at a friends house and then ...See more we all went to a bar that same night. Things were going really well and we ended up making out in my car while we waited for everyone else to leave the bar. I really like this guy, Im just upset with myself because I went against the first tip in this list. We had sex the next day and again a week later. We text each other not everyday but pretty much and I could really see myself with this guy. He came over last night and I decided not to have sex with him because of how I feel about him. Is it too late to try to have a serious relationship with this guy? Should I ask him out on a date? I know communication is key but I’ve been having trouble figuring out how to tell him that I’m looking for something less casual than what we’ve been doing. Is there any hope for this relationship?
Anonymous :
I know your falling for him again and it’s one of the hardest things to control but please listen to my advice. DON’T show him you like him. Ignore him as much as possible, DON’T ...See more look in his direction, don’t be nice to him just be casual, make him feel confused look at him one day then the following day ignore him completely, don’t start conversations with him let him come up to you, don’t laugh at his jokes, make fun of him and lastly get revenge. A guy like him calling you a whore doesn’t deserve to have a second chance TRUST ME I was heart broken because I really loved this guy and he liked me but everything went pear shaped and he started treating me like crap and I still loved him and kept falling in love with him over and over again but the best solution is to remember and think about ALL the things you hate about him. Eventually you will start disliking him or lose interest in him. Remember don’t look at him and don’t let him notice you like him. He will use you again and it will hurt twice as badly. Show him you’ve got the power, he will soon back down or even respect and worship you LOL xD
Heather :
Hey! I’d definitely talk to him about it! There is hope, just because you’ve had sex with him doesn’t mean that you can’t have a relationship that is meaningful. :)
Marisa Coles :
All you gotta do is tel him how it is, let him know you want to get to know him better and tell him that you want more than just sex, and it means a ...See more lot to you if you can take the time together to get to know one another and plan something to do that keeps you both occupied without going to have sex right after. Like bowling, movies, concert. Or ask hin to meet you at a coffee shop or restaurant. Good luck.
I’ve been talking to this guy for as long as I’ve known him (all of 2 weeks) and we hit it off the first time we met. We met at a friends house and then ... See more we all went to a bar that same night. Things were going really well and we ended up making out in my car while we waited for everyone else to leave the bar. I really like this guy, Im just upset with myself because I went against the first tip in this list. We had sex the next day and again a week later. We text each other not everyday but pretty much and I could really see myself with this guy. He came over last night and I decided not to have sex with him because of how I feel about him. Is it too late to try to have a serious relationship with this guy? Should I ask him out on a date? I know communication is key but I’ve been having trouble figuring out how to tell him that I’m looking for something less casual than what we’ve been doing. Is there any hope for this relationship?