15 Tips to Remember when You See Your Ex in Public ...

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I’m sure like me, you probably don't find yourself exactly thrilled when you see your ex in public, unless you have already overcome the breakup, or are hoping for a reunion between the two of you.

I’m especially not fond of seeing an ex out in public with a new girlfriend if I’ve just broken up with them on bad terms, but even if I’ve overcome the breakup, some emotions can still be hard to avoid.

What I’ve learned over the last years of being single and having time to adjust to seeing my exes out in public, is that it doesn’t have to be a painful experience.

If you handle it the right way, it can even make you stronger.

There are good and bad ways to deal with seeing your ex in public and I’m here to tell you that most of the time, it can be easy to lean towards the bad ways unless we’re careful.2

Avoid making a scene or causing yourself more heartache by remembering these tips to keep in mind next time you see your ex in public.

These are also great ideas for seeing friends out in public where the friendship may have ended poorly too, which never hurts to be aware of.

1. Remain Calm

One of the best tips for when you see your ex in public is to remain calm.

Don’t lash out if they recently just hurt you, don’t make obscene or rude loud gestures, and for goodness sake, don’t cause a dramatic scene if you've been in daily puddles of tears missing them.

Remember, you want to appear strong, independent, and not so mad that you don’t know how to act in public.

Remaining a lady in these situations can be tough, but your reputation will give you a big thank you for it later, as will your friends who are with you!

Be Polite

Comments:

Hannah
Guts*
Hannah
Guys*
Hannah
I'm pretty sure my ex hates my guys so I try to steer clear of him.
Chloe Miley
I must start by saying I absolutely love the picture.
Crimm
What about if you have your newborn with you?
Emily
Yeah but don't you want to flaunt your happy even tho ur not
Rish
:sticker_dont_worry:
Jeanette
*solution
Jeanette
Ignored him... that's it!.. This is my solition ever :)
Cara
Umm idk what I just did... What is that...😳^
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