13. Make the First Move

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It's probably normal for your guy to ask for or initiate something in bed. Why not shake things up? Every so often why don't you make the first move? He'll love the unexpectedness of this, especially if you've never done it before. Lean over and kiss him a little harder than usual, let your hang linger on his thigh, or do anything so he knows where you're going with your hints.

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@Devon, my Mr B is repulsed by the idea of food and sex together. He wants to devour me not whipped cream and as I've a dairy allergy I can't return the favour.... Altho I did offer to use.... Marmite haha
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Surprised you forgot number 1: Lick his ass****. How could you miss this!
@Devon, I'm with you, the "whipped cream on a bed of chocolate syrup" thing would probably only work if the gal were shaved down there. An entire shag rug might provide too many calories to clean off. But I'd try maybe once, just to be sure.
@Sarah, (look for an @Sarah reply further down) I didn't know how to reply before)
Heather Jensen
Hi Devon! That is very, very true! I think that if you do some of these things -- but also don't over complicate it sometimes, it'll keep him guessing. The communication is also VERY important.
OMG!!! I just stumbled here...don't know how I got here, but I am loving it...I haven't read all of the comments, but I can relate...@David, I am that girl, but still single (by choice) because I am v...
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