Most women are terrified of being hurt by a man or not being able to see the signs he's a womanizer. Well ladies, I'm here to help point out 13 clear warning signs that you're dealing with a player! If you are looking for signs he's a womanizer in your boyfriend but can't pinpoint them yourself, stop worrying. Just take a look below and see if your boyfriend has any of the traits that I've listed!
1. The Way He Picks You up
One of the easiest signs he's a womanizer is the way he picks you up. The guy you deserve is someone who is sincere and humble when he talks to you. Shyness is endearing when it comes to guys because it gives a woman a sense of confidence. The womanizer is the alpha male who name drops everyone he knows, talks about the car he drives, and says the sleaziest pick up lines you can think of, such as "I'm going to make your night, pretty lady." An abundance of jewelry around his neck and bright peacock clothing are major signs that you need to take off!
How exactly did a "player" get to be some one admired? Not so long ago they were called lounge lizar… See moreds. Creepy guys trying to pickup every / any girl in the place. There were even games like leasure suit Larry makeing fun of these creeps. At some point the term lounge lizard changed to player and the same bad behavior became all but completely acceptable. Come on girls time to make polite respectful guys the ones worthy of our attention.
Hey Anon! I agree! It does seem like the players and womanizers are what a lot of girls are going … See moreafter -- we deserve the best girls! :)
I do agree with her. #7 is kind of wrong in my opinion. I know this kid I like that hasn't had a gir… See morelfriend in awhile but he likes me and that doesn't make him a player or a bad person. That makes him a good guy.
Hey Anon! If he does have a girlfriend though, he should be concentrating on his girlfriend more th… See morean anything. If he does break up with his girlfriend though, I'd say he is completely free game. :)
Ugh i dated a guy like this, I actually didn't realise what he was Doing till I read this
Good for you for getting out of the relationship!
thank you for the ideas ...
Thank you for the comment Shanie and for stopping by! ;)
I'm surrounded by such. Friends with them and even dated an hurt by one. This woke me up on men. In … See moregeneral. Thank you.
Hey Norath, Sometimes you have to date the really crummy men to appreciate the good ones! We live an… See mored learn :) Thanks for stopping by!
Pretty good article, I have to say. The author has probably had her share of losers! I would call … See moremyself an ex-player. I did all this stuff in my younger years, but it reaches a point where you get diminishing returns.
Thank you for the comment John! It's great to see a guy's point of view!
okay so the guy tells me he doesn't want ne thing serious but thn after a cpl months starts showing … See morediff by actions not words n tells me his last relationship lasted 10months...???
Hi Tammy! Do you like this guy?
well. im a womanizer then! nice <3
wow. soooo effin true!! gosh i can't believe i dated a womanizer!! arrrrrghhh!! thanks for the info.
Hi Melanie! Agreed! It's so hard to spot a womanizer. I'm glad you know what to look for now! :)
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Oh snap ... He is ... This was Very insightful !
A "sense" of confidence.
lol, I've been single for 3 years but I certainly AM not a womanizer, babe ; ). That's a pretty str… See moreong assumption that "If he has been single for a few years," he's a womanizer.
Hi John! I do agree, it all depends on the man and all depends on why he is single. :)
Why is it people make guys out to be the worst people. Women pull that kind of crap too. Im not sayi… See moreng guys r perfect but we r not the only ones to screw around with people's emotions
Hi David men know from the start most times if they want a relationship or not. For the ones that d… See moreon't want a relationship, they will still pretend like they do just to have sex. Most women don't stoop that low.
Hi David! I do definitely agree that women aren't perfect either, but I'd say that a lot of men do … See moreit a lot more often.
So true about the name calling part
i remember bieber in this one... lol
@David, okay read the article. yeah, your point makes since but its not put in the right contexts...… See more read the title for one think...shes not saying all men are like this, shes just saying look out for ones that are. there are soo many articles on this site about good guys.. we're just people, some of us are good some arent... this is just explaining how to avoid the bad... I was in relationship like it explains and found out the guy was just using me and lied when he said he loved me. I wouldnt want anyone else to go through this. male or female. it really sucks
Hey guys! I don't know what to do! I met this guy at a party at school through my two friends that a… See morere a couple. The girlfriend goes to the same school as the boy that I am somewhat talking to and her and her boyfriend introduced me to the guy. We met at a party at my college after he drove down to party with his best friend from home who was a girl on the volleyball team. We introduced ourselves to one anther and didn't really speak until later in the night when he decided to speak to me and ask me to dance after I saw him staring at me on the fridge for like a half an hour. He asked me to dance and we danced for an hour and a half straight. Then he asked me to go outside. He told me to go down and visit him at his college then he asked me for my number and I gave him a bs story and didn't give it to him because I was kind of intoxicated and I didn't know him that well. But after speaking to my friends who introduced us, they said that he was a really good guy and to give him a chance. SO I gave him my number and we danced and made out at the party. (he may or may not have been my first kiss) Anyways, ha we ended the night with a hug and then I saw him the next morning when I said goodbye to my friends and he just gave my a little head nod. So it was kind of awkward. He never texted me until 2 weeks later and during that time, my friend who goes to school with him kept on telling me that he was going to call/text me, but it took him two weeks. He texted me at 10 am during a class and we talked for the whole day straight and sent at least 300 texts back and forth. Then he called me on the phone and talking to him was like magic. I had not smiled so much before like that in long time. Or even ever seeing as to how was the first guy for me to actually like like this. We talked for a consistent 4 days. And this four days we played 20 questions where he managed to bring up sex 3 times:had I ever had sex? what did i think of it? and would i keep it until marriage. I answered him with a no, its natural and meant to happen, but i havent done it at all and an "I don't know" then he told me that he respected me what I thought. I told him thank you. Then I asked him what he thought and he said that likes sex but it is not the only thing on his mind and that in a relationship, you have to like and respect the person then sex can come later. SO i thought alright, this guy seems genuine. But as the days went on, he kept on telling me to see him at his school while he has a car and I don't. We were all going to go to a party 3 hours away as I invited to come and he was willing to come, but when it came time to "hanging out" with me, he told me that I should see and that he couldn't drive because of work the next day. So I was so mad at him and he was just being so stubborn. So i told him i felt sick and i would text him the next day. I didn't and then he texted me the day after i was supposed to text him and he asked why i dont like him anymore trying to make me feel bad for not talking to him then I made him feel bad once he found out I was in bed sick the whole day. Then he told me to feel better. Didnt talk to me for the rest of the day and I realized that things were just getting to awkward. Then I decided why not try to see what he was after. So I invited him up to hang for the weekend at my school for some parties that were going to happen. He wasn't sure if he was going to come because he had work but then he said the would try his hardest because he really wanted to see me. SO he went all of this past Saturday without texting me and i asked him if he was going to still come down to see me and he told me that he didnt know because he was still at work. He had work from 6am to 8 well that is what he told me. But then my friend who goes to school with him that introduced us told me that he got out at 730 and was going to bring her so that she could see her boyfriend. So i asked her if should call him and she said well he just called and told me that he had work till 9 but when i asked he said that he didn't know. So i messaged him and told him to do what had to do but it would be cool to see him. Then later on that night my friend told me that the guy and her just left and that they were on their way. However when he texted my back to the it would be great to see you he said "really" and i said yes and he said "then i will come". WHat??????? Why the two different stories? He came late, was flirting with the checkin girl infront of me and not infront of me. I went and hugged all my guy friends who hugged me and stayed quiet. Took him to a party was shutting down due to him being late, he complained about my school being whack and lame parties and that I should go to his school and his parties because they are awesome. I was getting annoyed with him. Brought him around my friends, they talked about sports and stuff. They got along, we got tired, went back to my room and on the way my hallmate and friend walked by with a tank top on and he said "damn look at her titties" (he is a foreigner may I add). I looked at him and just kept walking he apologized. I was like whatever. I was tired and sobering up and was about to make him sleep on my rug. Then we got to my room and he sat next to me and asked me how my week was and he began to hold me. Then all the problems i saw before were gone. I thought maybe things were okay, then he got up took his clothes off. (just his flannel shirt and tight jeans and he had clothes on underneath) so i did not think it was a big deal till he got up again and pulled out his chapstick. I thought really? I know what is going to happen now. I was then distant from him and then he bit my ear and we just made out for 2 hours straight. He tried to get me to touch him "there" three times and i wasn't with it then he could tell and he stopped me held my face and looked into my eyes and said "i will not force you into anything you dont want' to do. all i want to do is make you comfortable. tell me and we can stop." i told him that i wasn't going to have sex with him and he told me okay that is absolutely fine. We kept on making out then we talked. We got very deep and he told me alot of things that i was not expecting. He got personal and I thought that was good sign. I began to understand him more then i managed to listen to his heart and it was beating so fast and i asked why and said that is was because of me and i thought at first he is just playing around and then as i listened again, his heartbeat began to get slow down as he was looking into my eyes telling me that his was going fast because of me. I didn't know what to say and he began making fun of me and mocking me trying to get me to laugh. Then we fell asleep spooning holding hands and his arms around me so that i could fall asleep in his arms. The next morning spooned more and made out alot more and were very close to doing it. 3 hours later he put his head on my chest and said that my heart was telling so many secrets but two being that i was crazy and a liar because i had not honest answer for how i felt about him. He cuddled for a half hour. we talked. He brought his ex and told me they broke up right before school because of long distance but still remained good friends. I don't know what to think about him...he was distant we he said goodbye with a kiss and drove off leaving me with the words of "i will text you and let you know what is going on. bye". I am dazed and confused. what do i do? wait or move on?
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I hate the girl who wrote this article My girl friend thinks now that I'm a womanizer