7. He Doesn't Need You for Anything but Things That He Needs

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Does your boyfriend not take into account your needs?

Maybe it'd be nice once in a while for him to pick you up, instead of you constantly picking him up.3

Does he not take any of your needs into account when he makes decisions?

It's a sign girls!

He Never Takes Your Feelings into Consideration


Heather Jensen
Hi Craig! I'd say for the first couple date -- he should pay, once you get into a comfortable relationship, that's when you start splitting things. :)
Heather Jensen
Hi Judes! It was written for the younger generation, but I think that everyone can benefit from it! :)
"Even though the guy is supposed to pay" Seriously?
Judes Viskoe-King
Was this article written for a 15 year old? It's like a pop-up book of generalizations.
Sounds like marriage from a males point of view!
Heather Jensen
Hi Terry! What was that? You -- ate his wallet?
Heather Jensen
Hi Thatcher! I do definitely agree that if you reverse the article, it sounds like a common relationship, but truthfully, I do think that everything should be split at least 50/50 most of the time -- if not, why be in a relationship if you are always the giver or always the taker? I've seen guys that use a girl in this way before, they use her for everything that she is worth and then leave her for the next girl -- it's not right. I've also seen girls do the exact same thing and that isn't right either. Thanks for the great comment and for the insight!
Thatcher's Iron Stiletto
Reverse the sexes in your article a sec and read it back. Sounds a lot more common relationship than the way you have it. Also what is wrong with a relationship where one partner is financially dependant on the other? Often it can be a lot smarter for partners to specialise in providing something to the relationship, play to their strengths, instead of having everything split 50/50 effort down the middle. It might not fit into the conformist modern picture of an ideal relationship ideal that rags like this and other liberal wonks like to portray as something everybody should aspire to. It requires thinking and working it out for yourselves. That's one of the joys of life. Go out and live it.
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