7 Ways to Attract a Guy …

By Heather Some time ago

How to Attract a guy using your body and non-verbal cues isn’t easy, is it girls! It’s not impossible though. Below, I’m going to teach you the ins and outs of how to attract a guy without using your voice, instead by using your personality. Personality s huge girls and it’s one of the first things that guys notice about a girl. You could be extremely pretty, but if you don’t have the right personality to fit with his, he won’t take a second look. So ladies, are you ready to learn how to attract a guy without using your voice?

1. Self Confidence

I swear, this is the biggest one that a lot of us girls lack. You’re beautiful, no matter what and you should be confident in it. self confidence is definitely one of the key tips on learning how to attract a guy. So stay confident and strong and I swear, he’ll be attracted without you ever saying anything to him!

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January 18, 2012 at 9:42 pm Permalink
Anonymous says:

Okay, I like this boy but I told him I liked him and he turned me down. I kinda got over him but I feel like he likes me a bit now. Whats a good ... See more way to get him back and not end up with a broken heart?

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- January 25, 2012 at 9:06 pm
  kennedy says:
  
  hmm i think you should get over him let him wash out of your mind till you move in the moving truck cry for him till he gets you
  
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- January 30, 2012 at 7:25 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  But he likes me now, I’m sure of it because I overheard a convo with my friend and he wants me. So what should I do? He’s like my best FRIEND
  
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- February 5, 2012 at 3:10 pm
  Heather says:
  
  Hey Anon!
  
  If your BFF likes you and you feel the same, why not just talk to him about it? I think, honestly, that it’ll be a short conversation. If you both ... See more like one another, why not get together?
  
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January 30, 2012 at 10:28 pm Permalink
Anonymous says:

hi theres this guy and i like him soooooo much!! i catch him looking at me somtimes but not as much as would like him 2.i think he likes me cuz people have said ... See more it be4 but i cant jus take there word 4 it. he`s popuar and im not so im afraid he might be all shallow and not like me cuz im not really popular. we`ve only spoken once and that was when i told him i liked him but he didnt reply as to wether he liked me back. now i am thinking, did i make the mistake of telling him????

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- January 31, 2012 at 5:37 am
  Anonymous says:
  
  Hi there. First of all when a guy looks at you even just sometimes that’s a good sign. Your right even if people say he likes you, who knows if they are telling the truth ... See more or joking so its best to find out for sure. Now don’t go changing yourself to be popular and all. We are all unique and different. Noone is better than anyone else. So you don’t have to be popular too for him to like you. If he is a genuine and a good-hearted guy he will respect you popular or not. Also if you have spoken even once that’s a start. Most guys are usually the ones who tell the girl they like them. Guys like a challenge. Girls who play-hard-to-get but I don’t think it is a bad thing that you expressed your feelings as life is too short to not take that leap of faith. He may be the one you never know. If he didn’t reply it doesn’t always mean a bad thing i mean all guys are different. This could mean he is shy just to the part of you telling him how you feel. Or he may not be ready for a relationship yet or it could mean a million and 1 things you just have to judge it and see. Even bring the topic up again, it may be awkward but the biggest risk of all is taking no risk and no you know what i do not think you made the mistake of telling him it just shows you really care for him and if he appreciates you the day will come where he may come to you. But now just wait a bit don’t seem desperate, and remember play-hard-to-get. Make sure you always smile that is the most attractive and inviting thing.
  
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- February 2, 2012 at 1:55 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  i have exactly the same problem except i told him not to chuck a ball at me!!!!!
  
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- February 5, 2012 at 3:10 pm
  Heather says:
  
  Hey Anon!
  
  Do you know him at all? It doesn’t sound like you guys talk a whole lot. You might have freaked him out a little stating that you like him on ... See more your first conversation. I’d maybe approach him and just try to talk to him again! Maybe see if you can find some common ground. Does he like the same kind of music you do? What about the same kind of hobbies? I’ll make all of the difference whether or not you two have anything in common!
  
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January 6, 2012 at 6:00 pm Permalink
Turmoil in HS says:

Guys like it when you play with their hair, (or at least some..)but like it whenever you play with your hair when talking to them

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January 27, 2012 at 10:56 pm Permalink
Anonymous says:

I only talk to this guy on facebook and we dont hangout in real life but i like him a lot. i dont know if he feels the same way but im going to hangout ... See more with him this week hopefully and use the soft touch tip and flirty body positionss haha thanks a lot!!:D

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January 26, 2012 at 3:59 pm Permalink
Anonymous says:

I like a guy, but I’m scared to ask him out!!! What if he says no? And if he does I would be completely imbaresed… :’( What should I do, can you give me some tips???? thx :D

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- February 5, 2012 at 2:33 pm
  Heather says:
  
  Hi Anon!
  
  Of course! I’d definitely say that you should talk to him, get to know him a little and maybe see if you can ask him to hang out in a group. ... See more A group setting is a great way to break the ice and for you to get him out with you. If you’re too scared to talk to him, why not text him or write him a letter? It’ll be meaningful and it’ll save you some embarrassment! :)
  
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- January 29, 2012 at 10:08 pm
  MC says:
  
  Some guys like ballsy women. If he rejects you, no need to be embarrassed, he isn’t worth your time. I have been rejected by so many guys, but I finally found one and ... See more I made the first move. We just celebrated our two year anniversary.
  
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January 26, 2012 at 2:11 pm Permalink
Anonymous says:

I met a guy online and we have been talking and seeing each other for about 5 months. We have only had sex and we have never gone out on dates. Some tiems he will ... See more text or call me to let me know he misses me and ask when am I coming over, but it’s never to ask about going out. I have told him I don’t think he really likes me but he says he does. I want more in the relationship if that’s what you would call it. I want to go out and hang with him and do things together, not just have sex.

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- January 29, 2012 at 3:41 am
  Liz says:
  
  I saw a movie the other day called “Trust” If you’re under age please be careful with meeting guys online. And if he’s close by, maybe try meeting him and hanging out in real life.
  
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- February 5, 2012 at 2:32 pm
  Heather says:
  
  Hello Anon!
  
  It sounds like to me he is treating you a little like a booty call. You’re more than that for sure! I’d say that you should absolutely talk to him ... See more about it. Let him know that you aren’t having sex until he makes a decision. Does he want to be with you? Is he looking for a relationship? It doesn’t sound like you two are on the same page of where you are in your relationship. Just talk to him, I’m sure that you’ll be able to sort it all out! :)
  
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January 25, 2012 at 1:41 pm Permalink
Anonymous says:

Ok so a few weeks ago I went clubbing with my friend, and while we were there a guy started dancing with me, we were together for about 3 hours and he kissed me and ... See more we got each other’s numbers. Trust me I am not the sort to normally accept someone I don’t know kissing me, but with him it just somehow felt right? To be honest I was expecting it not to last or for him not to even text, but since he has been texting me every single day and we have met up 3 times, I really really like him, he just seems totally perfect! We always have interesting conversations and he texts me just to say good night and good morning. Anyway, I’ve recently seen him being tagged in pictures on facebook with this other girl, and I don’t know who she is but they are always really flirty with each other! I’m just wondering if I have been really foolish to believe he was something special, or am I just being silly and over-analysing things? For all I know she could just be an old friend, but I don’t want to ask him because I don’t want to seem obsessive since we have only known each other for a few weeks! Any advice would be amazing, I really don’t know what to do!

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- January 26, 2012 at 12:58 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  She might just be an ex. Plus all boy’s flirt it’s how they are so don’t worry.
  
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- February 5, 2012 at 2:25 pm
  Heather says:
  
  Hello Anon!
  
  Thanks so much for posting! Honestly, I would just question him about it. I wouldn’t bring it up in a stalkerish type of way, but casually just bring up ‘Hey, ... See more that girl that you’ve been tagged in pictures with on Facebook, is that an old friend of yours?’ or something else casual. Just keep it light and I promise, that you won’t come off as obsessive, just curious. :)
  
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January 6, 2012 at 4:29 pm Permalink
ColetteX says:

Hii :) so i do this stageschool every saturday for three hours and i reallly like this boy who goes there. Hes a year older but all my friends think hes into me.. He is ... See more always hugging me, touching me, pulling me close to him, talking to me differently to the way he talks to other people, singling me out ect and i thought he liked me! But we dont really speak outside stageschool cos he never uses his phone…plus, i thik if he liked me, hed say something by now (ive known him 2months) my friends say i shoukd tell him i like him but i dont want to embaress myself…we’re very flirty with each other, i always dress my best when i see him, im quite a witty person as it is so i dont know what else to do…should i say something?ask him out? Do you think he actually likes me or im i just misreafing the signs..please help! Thnx xxxx

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- January 18, 2012 at 9:45 pm
  Ayan says:
  
  Okay. I’m not saying don’t ask him out, but you denfinately should! Girl, those are surefire ways that he likes you. But flirt with him or leave a note and see if he really does ... See more like you. Go get him! And good luck hun!
  
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- January 19, 2012 at 1:56 am
  Alana says:
  
  Tell him you like him or just ask to hang out outside of stageschool. If thats too hard to do, ask a friend to give little hints to him that you like him and that ... See more he should ask you out! it sounds promising! :)
  
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- January 24, 2012 at 8:06 pm
  Rawr Monkey says:
  
  due the same thing is happenin to me but my sis dont like him but i cant help my self but like him he a year older and i always feel comfertable with him i ... See more just dont kno wat to do
  
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- January 8, 2012 at 3:58 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  Definetly ask him out. This happened to me to. Me and my best friend were thinking for like half a year that he liked me, so I kinda started liking him and he ... See more found out that I kinda liked him and it turns out that he didn’t like but he was always duing the same exact thnig that guy is duing to you! But you should take a chance! I did and even though I got rejected, we ended up going out for a little bit! So always take a chance and see how it turns out. :) You always have other guys.
  
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- January 9, 2012 at 5:54 am
  ColetteX says:
  
  awesomee, thanks so much!x
  
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- January 8, 2012 at 4:02 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  @coletteX:
  This is from the same person but what I’m saying guys don’t usually exspress their feelings so don’t think just because he hasn’t said anything yet that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have feelings ... See more for you. Always take a chance! :)
  
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February 5, 2012 at 8:16 am Permalink
Anonymous says:

Their is this boy I like alot and o found out he likes my best friend.. I catch him staring at me and when I look at him he looks away.. I do not know ... See more what to do… Can you please help

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- February 8, 2012 at 3:18 am
  Anonymous says:
  
  Sweetie you have to find out first whether they are actually together or not because you are in for a better chance but even if they are don’t give up hope you never know what ... See more could happen down the track. They could break up and he could realise you are the one. But now all you got to do is try not to act desperate keep your distance but whenever you do see him give a genuine smile it is very attractive. Now the part where he stares at you and when you looks he turns away suggets he is shy but by staring at you that is a good sign so sus him out and just follow your heart you never know where it leads to. Good luck and i hope it works out for you.
  P.s. (But just make sure you don’t thid ruin your friendship with your friend.
  Let me know how it goes :)
  
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February 4, 2012 at 9:22 pm Permalink
Amelia says:

This guy has confessed having a crush on me, and I like him too, but I don’t know whether to ask him out, or to wait for him to ask me out, I don’t want ... See more to rush things, what should I do?

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- February 6, 2012 at 8:02 pm
  Anonymous says:
  
  Rubbish, he’s said he likes you – next time you’re talking mention a film you like and then suggest you go together (or a new coffeeshop, etc.). And if you really want to make a ... See more good impression, pay for the coffee or film saying “No, I asked you out” flirtily.
  
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- February 5, 2012 at 12:07 am
  Anonymous says:
  
  Hey Amelia. That is a great thing he has confessed he has a crush on you. Just wait though now for him to ask you out otherwise you will seem desperate. If he likes you ... See more he will eventually ask you out. Good luck i hope it goes well
  
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