9 Ways to Be the Best Girlfriend He's Ever Had ...

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As with athletes, only the greats go down in history;

when it comes to your man, there are ways to be the best girlfriend he’s ever had.

Be you a rookie or seasoned lean, mean, 30-something dating machine, understand one thing: finding your girlfriend style and channeling your inner goddess will set you apart from the rest of the pack.

Okay, I know that was overkill.

However, there are ways to be the best girlfriend he’s had that apply to every personality type.

1. Say What You Mean

This is not to be confused with being blunt, for I know that a lot of women panic at the idea of confronting a problem without any form of sugar coating.

There are however, ways to say exactly what you mean in a nonthreatening manner.

As most therapists advise, try using "I feel…when you" statements when you can.

They aren’t accusatory and they get your point across.

And if he asks you how you’re doing, don’t say fine unless you are just that.

I officially declare you too old for mind games, no matter how old you are.2

Saying what you mean is one of the easiest, emotionally freeing ways to be the best girlfriend he’s ever had.

HuMAN

Comments:

Monica
@lilhez, I completely agree!
Cmander0789
Just do your own thing and don't be all clingy. My boyfriends ex played a ton of mind games and was controlling and manipulative. I lay everything out on the table and he and I are partners above all else. That's what love is.
princess jadets
@Dianeg, i read that book the 5 love language is one of the best book...i really like it..
Cartèlea
Not argue and be an obsessive bitch ..
Shae23
I'm really on the fence with this post...being a woman is about being true to yourself no matter if you are in a relationship or not. When in a relationship always be true. If you begin doing things that you saw on a list, then get comfortable and stop - you're bf will wonder what happened to that woman he knew. When you truly find "the one" the caring moments will come often and easily. And, each of you will appreciate each other for the contributions that are made. Sorry for the long post, but I don't agree with trying to "trick" someone and "stand out from the crowd". When you find your girl/guy please trust that you won't have to compete to stand out. You will already be the shining star!! ;)
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