3. Surprise, the Spice of Life

This idea can be applied to every aspect of your relationship.2

It can be as small as leaving a note in his shower or going skydiving on a whim.

If your man is a thrill seeker or even just your average Joe, pulling him out of his comfort zone is a good thing.

Heโ€™ll have a lot of firsts with you and simultaneously learn to conquer fears with you by his side.

Over time, these experiences and sharing of emotional vulnerability will strengthen the bond between the two of you.

Be Appreciative


I'm really on the fence with this post...being a woman is about being true to yourself no matter if you are in a relationship or not. When in a relationship always be true. If you begin doing things that you saw on a list, then get comfortable and stop - you're bf will wonder what happened to that woman he knew. When you truly find "the one" the caring moments will come often and easily. And, each of you will appreciate each other for the contributions that are made. Sorry for the long post, but I don't agree with trying to "trick" someone and "stand out from the crowd". When you find your girl/guy please trust that you won't have to compete to stand out. You will already be the shining star!! ;)
Porn is ok for a relationship ? Ok of course this is the American Society. I will never trust the person who posts this. Sorry but I want a guy who not only respects me but himself. I would rather be selfish and not compete with porn.
I'm so stealing the beer mug one from you because my girl loves to drink her beer...:) Haha...
Love these tips! I agree 100% and do most. Thanks!
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