6. Build Him up

This should come naturally, but if you make the effort and take it a step further, you’ll be happy you did.

You love to feel wanted and so does he.

Find the features of his body and personality that drive you wild and dole out a few compliments a week addressing those specifically.

He’ll become confident in those features and even if you two don’t last, he’ll reflect on his time with you as one of positive self image.

People remember points in their life when they felt like their "best self." How’s that for a recipe for nostalgia?

Stay Curious


Just do your own thing and don't be all clingy. My boyfriends ex played a ton of mind games and was controlling and manipulative. I lay everything out on the table and he and I are partners above all else. That's what love is.
princess jadets
@Dianeg, i read that book the 5 love language is one of the best book...i really like it..
Not argue and be an obsessive bitch ..
I'm really on the fence with this post...being a woman is about being true to yourself no matter if you are in a relationship or not. When in a relationship always be true. If you begin doing things that you saw on a list, then get comfortable and stop - you're bf will wonder what happened to that woman he knew. When you truly find "the one" the caring moments will come often and easily. And, each of you will appreciate each other for the contributions that are made. Sorry for the long post, but I don't agree with trying to "trick" someone and "stand out from the crowd". When you find your girl/guy please trust that you won't have to compete to stand out. You will already be the shining star!! ;)
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