13 Ways to Deal with Being the Other Woman ...


Being the other woman is a tough situation isn’t it?

This is especially true if the guy is married and not just in a relationship.

There are ways to deal with being the other woman and here, we’ll explore some of them.

We’ll also talk about maybe getting yourself out of being the other woman.

1. Face the Truth

When you’re in a situation where you are being the other woman, it can be really difficult to see the truth.

Is he really going to leave his girlfriend?

Is he going to stick with his wife?

Why hasn’t he left his girl yet?

These are all questions that you should ask yourself.2

In general, most guys want their cake and eat it too, that doesn’t go for every single situation and man, but in most cases, if a guy has a girlfriend and a wife, he’ll want to keep both of them.

Develop outside Interests


I myself am currently the other woman. I'm 23 years old with a 3 year old daughter. I met him at work, we began talking and he asked me out so I said yes. We had so much in common because he told me he was a single parent like myself. About a week later I found out he did have a gf, however it only took a week for us to completely fall for each other. He decided to keep seeing me and I was ok with that. We've been at this for about 2 months, he tells me he doesn't love his gf anymore, he's only with her for their son who is actually not even his biological son, but he's been there since he was born and he grew up with divorced parents and doesn't want his son to grow up the same way. He tells me his gf is basically a pain in the ass. She doesn't let him do anything not even go out alone with friends. He feels trapped but I ask him why is he with her and put up with all this? I'm too scared to ask him to leave her. When were together it's perfection, nothing else matters and we are always happy laughing and have everything in common, it's a connection we've both never felt before. If he really liked her he wouldn't do this to her. But if he really loved me like he said he would leave her. I'm stuck and don't know what to do. I want this man and he wants me, but idk how to cope with being the other woman.
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