13 Ways to Deal with Your Crush Having a Girlfriend ...


We've gotten a ton of feedback and comments on what to do if your crush has a girlfriend. Well girls, you asked for it and we're here to deliver! Below, I've got the top 13 ways to deal with your crush having a girlfriend and what you can do about it! After all, you never want to break up a relationship, but what can you do when your crush has a girlfriend? Let's take a look below!

1. Respect That He is with Someone

Having a crush on someone can bring on a ton of strong feelings, but girls, how would you like it if someone had a crush on your boyfriend and was acting on it? You've got to respect that he's with someone in order to move forward. If it doesn't work out? He's free game, but until then, you will have to just respect that they are together. I know that's really hard when your crush has a girlfriend and you still have strong feelings, but there are ways to work through it!

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it happened to me too but i just let him go....
Heather Jensen
Aww Noni, I'm so sorry. I know it's hard to deal with, but it is something that happens.
Same here, I hate it...at least I know that I'm not alone. Almost all of my friends have this problem. :(
Alisha Coughran
What if I've done all this and even after my crush and his girlfriend have broken up I still like him; should I go for it?
@Becca, what are you gonna do now, Becca?
Jop, the same as Becca-perfect timing, thanks...The worst thing is, that my crush said to me (after we had gone out for few times) that he´s got a "quite working relationship" , but he´d like to see...
Heather Jensen
It is. It sucks to have a crush on a guy with a girlfriend. :(
Heather Jensen
Aww! Thanks Becca! I'm so sorry that happened to you though. It's a hard topic to deal with.
Jeez, you wrote this at THE perfect time! Thanks!
Clarissa McCloud
:( this is all sadly true.
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