2. Practise

If the idea of flirting really scares you, try practising.

You don’t need to enlist a friend, or do those excruciating “job interview” kind of role plays.

Just imagine yourself chatting to a guy, and think about the kinds of things you would like to say to him – then it will be easier when you try it out in a real situation.

Play a Role


Alright, so the guy that sits in front of me in Spanish is insanely adorable, but I never know what to say! I answer questions he has about homework and give him classwork answers occasionally, but I can't seem to get any ENGLISH words to come out right. He asked me how to spell something today, and I completely forgot how to articulate individual letters. It is that bad. What do I do?
Heather Jensen
Hi Caitlyn! It's so hard to jump into anything when it starts out when you were drunk -- honestly, I'd talk to him. I'd see what he says and see if you can get him to admit if he was embarrassed because he was drunk or if it was you. Personally, I think it was because he was drunk. :)
Caitlyn Hayes
Ok so there's this guy that I like... A lot... And we kind of made out once at a party but I was totally messed up. Then I heard that he said he was embarrased about it, but I don't know if he was embarrassed because it was me, or because he was drunk when it happened. All I know is that now I like him and I don't know what to do. Any advice?
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